"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bonez

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Apart from kicking his ass how do I get a friend to stop trying to be macho?

"I wanna fight tonight" kinda **** he pulls off at parties is a piss off. He's a hook-up for a lot of my friends and he's pulling lame immature insults and games out of his ass. The only reason the others are keeping him around is because he's a long time friend.

What the **** to do with him. I'm just ready to whack him once and leave it at that and tell him to **** off any time I see him from now on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rex Man

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Stop being a pvssy and tell him how you really feel. If you come to him like a man, he won't want to fight you. Also, why are you friends with him. Because "he's a hook up for a lot of MY friends"? If they're really you're friends, and not just his, then it shouldn't matter if you two get along great or not.
 
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