"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can't find a single girl to save my life

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This has been my achilles heel. Almost every cute girl has a boyfriend. They've never given me the "boyfriend" excuse. But I know for a fact they have one from either their myspace, facebook, or a friend has told me. It's just frustrating because most of the time I can't even lay down some game. I see an attractive woman and don't even bother anymore. She's either got a b/f or a husband or some guy in her life that she's seeing.

All these FRs of numbers from HB 9's are fairy tales. They either aren't 9s or are fking hookers.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MisterMcGee

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lol BFs... I get looked at by girls with BFs all the time where I work.
 

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You don't need a girl to save your life. Especially a girlfriend. Having a girlfriend/wife is like catch-22. Depending on the chick, she may help or completely destroy your life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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alnite said:
You don't need a girl to save your life. Especially a girlfriend. Having a girlfriend/wife is like catch-22. Depending on the chick, she may help or completely destroy your life.
What has that got to do with anything?

Anyway I think what the other dude is trying to say, is that boyfriends really do not matter. I hit on chicks all the time with boyfriends, once you learn to create your whole personality to be a certain way (Aka not using a switch..CHoosing to "Game" certrain people and not others), it shouldn't matter. You act the same to everyone, girls like you just for talking to them. I'm not saying try to hit on people with boyfriends, but really it shouldn't make ANY difference. Next time a chick tells you about her boyfriend just ignore it and keep talking to her. The other day I was talking to this girl and she exclaims "I have a boyfriend!" and I said, "Yeah I'll bet you do.." and gave her a weird look. Just kinda acted a bit distant, and a couple of minutes later she was by my side trying to get my attention again. She knew that she sounded weird by saying that, but most guys will just go :mad: and leave her alone.
 

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Jaggs said:
What has that got to do with anything?

Anyway I think what the other dude is trying to say, is that boyfriends really do not matter. I hit on chicks all the time with boyfriends, once you learn to create your whole personality to be a certain way (Aka not using a switch..CHoosing to "Game" certrain people and not others), it shouldn't matter. You act the same to everyone, girls like you just for talking to them. I'm not saying try to hit on people with boyfriends, but really it shouldn't make ANY difference. Next time a chick tells you about her boyfriend just ignore it and keep talking to her. The other day I was talking to this girl and she exclaims "I have a boyfriend!" and I said, "Yeah I'll bet you do.." and gave her a weird look. Just kinda acted a bit distant, and a couple of minutes later she was by my side trying to get my attention again. She knew that she sounded weird by saying that, but most guys will just go :mad: and leave her alone.
I had the same confusion. Depending on how you read the thread title it sounds like he wants a girl to "save his life."
 

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Attraction is not a choice.

Women break up with their boyfriends all the time. Do you really think these girls are all getting married to their boyfriends?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJVladdy

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My personal favorite is: oh gee, I'm already SORT OF SEEING someone

or

im KINDA DATING somebody

bytch stfu, dont lie to me like that
 

Poonani Maker

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alnite said:
You don't need a girl to save your life. Especially a girlfriend. Having a girlfriend/wife is like catch-22. Depending on the chick, she may help or completely destroy your life.
Yeah, they could cry "Rape!" even if you haven't kissed and you're fvcked in today's court system stacked against men.
 

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I subliminally hit on chicks with husbands and the husbands pick up on it and the next thing I know, he's bad-mouthing me to her, even though they're like 10-20 years older than me. Fvck, I don't care, if their husbands or boyfriends get jealous, fvck em. I'm not gonna lose any sleep over them. I am who I am.
 

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i really don't see the problem, as it was stated above, most chicks do already have something they're willing to call a "boyfriend". For all you really know it's a vibrating tongue machine.

even if it's a living breathing human being, you can't discount them just for that. You simply do not know what's going on in this chicks life. she could be saying 'Yeah i have a boyfriend" but thinking "i wish this guy would ask me out"

one chick i hooked up with on occasion actually confessed that to me a few months after. i had NO idea she had a boyfriend until i saw the dude stop by and pick her up one time.

I agree with you though, it's much better to find SINGLE chicks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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