Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can't find a single girl to save my life

Snowman23

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This has been my achilles heel. Almost every cute girl has a boyfriend. They've never given me the "boyfriend" excuse. But I know for a fact they have one from either their myspace, facebook, or a friend has told me. It's just frustrating because most of the time I can't even lay down some game. I see an attractive woman and don't even bother anymore. She's either got a b/f or a husband or some guy in her life that she's seeing.

All these FRs of numbers from HB 9's are fairy tales. They either aren't 9s or are fking hookers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MisterMcGee

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lol BFs... I get looked at by girls with BFs all the time where I work.
 

alnite

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You don't need a girl to save your life. Especially a girlfriend. Having a girlfriend/wife is like catch-22. Depending on the chick, she may help or completely destroy your life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jaggs

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alnite said:
You don't need a girl to save your life. Especially a girlfriend. Having a girlfriend/wife is like catch-22. Depending on the chick, she may help or completely destroy your life.
What has that got to do with anything?

Anyway I think what the other dude is trying to say, is that boyfriends really do not matter. I hit on chicks all the time with boyfriends, once you learn to create your whole personality to be a certain way (Aka not using a switch..CHoosing to "Game" certrain people and not others), it shouldn't matter. You act the same to everyone, girls like you just for talking to them. I'm not saying try to hit on people with boyfriends, but really it shouldn't make ANY difference. Next time a chick tells you about her boyfriend just ignore it and keep talking to her. The other day I was talking to this girl and she exclaims "I have a boyfriend!" and I said, "Yeah I'll bet you do.." and gave her a weird look. Just kinda acted a bit distant, and a couple of minutes later she was by my side trying to get my attention again. She knew that she sounded weird by saying that, but most guys will just go :mad: and leave her alone.
 

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Jaggs said:
What has that got to do with anything?

Anyway I think what the other dude is trying to say, is that boyfriends really do not matter. I hit on chicks all the time with boyfriends, once you learn to create your whole personality to be a certain way (Aka not using a switch..CHoosing to "Game" certrain people and not others), it shouldn't matter. You act the same to everyone, girls like you just for talking to them. I'm not saying try to hit on people with boyfriends, but really it shouldn't make ANY difference. Next time a chick tells you about her boyfriend just ignore it and keep talking to her. The other day I was talking to this girl and she exclaims "I have a boyfriend!" and I said, "Yeah I'll bet you do.." and gave her a weird look. Just kinda acted a bit distant, and a couple of minutes later she was by my side trying to get my attention again. She knew that she sounded weird by saying that, but most guys will just go :mad: and leave her alone.
I had the same confusion. Depending on how you read the thread title it sounds like he wants a girl to "save his life."
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Attraction is not a choice.

Women break up with their boyfriends all the time. Do you really think these girls are all getting married to their boyfriends?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJVladdy

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My personal favorite is: oh gee, I'm already SORT OF SEEING someone

or

im KINDA DATING somebody

bytch stfu, dont lie to me like that
 

Poonani Maker

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alnite said:
You don't need a girl to save your life. Especially a girlfriend. Having a girlfriend/wife is like catch-22. Depending on the chick, she may help or completely destroy your life.
Yeah, they could cry "Rape!" even if you haven't kissed and you're fvcked in today's court system stacked against men.
 

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I subliminally hit on chicks with husbands and the husbands pick up on it and the next thing I know, he's bad-mouthing me to her, even though they're like 10-20 years older than me. Fvck, I don't care, if their husbands or boyfriends get jealous, fvck em. I'm not gonna lose any sleep over them. I am who I am.
 

Aragon034

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i really don't see the problem, as it was stated above, most chicks do already have something they're willing to call a "boyfriend". For all you really know it's a vibrating tongue machine.

even if it's a living breathing human being, you can't discount them just for that. You simply do not know what's going on in this chicks life. she could be saying 'Yeah i have a boyfriend" but thinking "i wish this guy would ask me out"

one chick i hooked up with on occasion actually confessed that to me a few months after. i had NO idea she had a boyfriend until i saw the dude stop by and pick her up one time.

I agree with you though, it's much better to find SINGLE chicks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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