"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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can't figure this girl out. AT ALL.

ohiobohio518

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my friends gf. she cheated on my friend with 3 different guys over the past few months, and my friend is a pvssy so he wouldnt break up with her. she talks sh1t behind his back all the time and never introduces her bf to her friends. she is probably the worst gf ever, so i finally convinced my friend to break up wtih her.

but then the same night she went to his dorm and waited 4 hours for him to return to tell him that she loved him. one of those hours was her standing outside in the brutal cold until the security guard let her in. and i mean DEADLY cold (we're talking -20F windchill). you couldnt pay me to stand outside in that weather for longer than 10 mins.

i was dumbfouded and i can no longer give him advice. she obviously cares about him, or feels just THAT guilty about maybe sleeping with more guys.

what would make a girl do something liek this? shes obviosly not in love with him from what shes been doing to him
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hell695

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easy she just wants ur buddy as backup incase she cant swing to the next branch so tell your buddy just to leave her alone because she's doing this manipulate him
 

The Deacon

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Ugh, my brother had a girlfriend just like this. She'll do anything to keep her boyfriend because there's a feeling of security, but she'll cheat on him with other guys who give her better sexual satisfaction. Since she knows he'll always come back to her, she'll just do sh*t like that.

Just cause they wait an hour in the cold for them doesn't mean they really give a sh*t about their feelings. She just did that so he would think that she actually loved him. She'll still sleep around with other guys.
 

DJDamage

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She is on a power trip.

This woman (and I am using this term losely) gets off on having this guy and calling him her boyfriend, while fvcking other men on the side.

When he left her, she lost all her powers and now she had to face the reality that she is just a hor.

Action speaks louder then words. There is no better advice out there for your friend. She will do this again, make no mistake about it. There are women out there who say they love their boyfriend's but then cheat and sleep around, are they really in love with them? another example is that there are women out there who say they hate their boyfriend's but always crawl back to them and never leave them, do they really hate them then?!! ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THEN WORDS! Words are meaningless if you can't back it up.
 

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you guys are so right. wish i could make my friend realize this. i wonder what he's gonna do when she cheats on him again. i dont want to be around when that happens.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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