"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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can't figure this girl out. AT ALL.

ohiobohio518

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my friends gf. she cheated on my friend with 3 different guys over the past few months, and my friend is a pvssy so he wouldnt break up with her. she talks sh1t behind his back all the time and never introduces her bf to her friends. she is probably the worst gf ever, so i finally convinced my friend to break up wtih her.

but then the same night she went to his dorm and waited 4 hours for him to return to tell him that she loved him. one of those hours was her standing outside in the brutal cold until the security guard let her in. and i mean DEADLY cold (we're talking -20F windchill). you couldnt pay me to stand outside in that weather for longer than 10 mins.

i was dumbfouded and i can no longer give him advice. she obviously cares about him, or feels just THAT guilty about maybe sleeping with more guys.

what would make a girl do something liek this? shes obviosly not in love with him from what shes been doing to him
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hell695

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easy she just wants ur buddy as backup incase she cant swing to the next branch so tell your buddy just to leave her alone because she's doing this manipulate him
 

The Deacon

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Ugh, my brother had a girlfriend just like this. She'll do anything to keep her boyfriend because there's a feeling of security, but she'll cheat on him with other guys who give her better sexual satisfaction. Since she knows he'll always come back to her, she'll just do sh*t like that.

Just cause they wait an hour in the cold for them doesn't mean they really give a sh*t about their feelings. She just did that so he would think that she actually loved him. She'll still sleep around with other guys.
 

DJDamage

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She is on a power trip.

This woman (and I am using this term losely) gets off on having this guy and calling him her boyfriend, while fvcking other men on the side.

When he left her, she lost all her powers and now she had to face the reality that she is just a hor.

Action speaks louder then words. There is no better advice out there for your friend. She will do this again, make no mistake about it. There are women out there who say they love their boyfriend's but then cheat and sleep around, are they really in love with them? another example is that there are women out there who say they hate their boyfriend's but always crawl back to them and never leave them, do they really hate them then?!! ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THEN WORDS! Words are meaningless if you can't back it up.
 

ohiobohio518

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you guys are so right. wish i could make my friend realize this. i wonder what he's gonna do when she cheats on him again. i dont want to be around when that happens.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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