"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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can't figure this girl out. AT ALL.

ohiobohio518

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my friends gf. she cheated on my friend with 3 different guys over the past few months, and my friend is a pvssy so he wouldnt break up with her. she talks sh1t behind his back all the time and never introduces her bf to her friends. she is probably the worst gf ever, so i finally convinced my friend to break up wtih her.

but then the same night she went to his dorm and waited 4 hours for him to return to tell him that she loved him. one of those hours was her standing outside in the brutal cold until the security guard let her in. and i mean DEADLY cold (we're talking -20F windchill). you couldnt pay me to stand outside in that weather for longer than 10 mins.

i was dumbfouded and i can no longer give him advice. she obviously cares about him, or feels just THAT guilty about maybe sleeping with more guys.

what would make a girl do something liek this? shes obviosly not in love with him from what shes been doing to him
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hell695

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easy she just wants ur buddy as backup incase she cant swing to the next branch so tell your buddy just to leave her alone because she's doing this manipulate him
 

The Deacon

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Ugh, my brother had a girlfriend just like this. She'll do anything to keep her boyfriend because there's a feeling of security, but she'll cheat on him with other guys who give her better sexual satisfaction. Since she knows he'll always come back to her, she'll just do sh*t like that.

Just cause they wait an hour in the cold for them doesn't mean they really give a sh*t about their feelings. She just did that so he would think that she actually loved him. She'll still sleep around with other guys.
 

DJDamage

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She is on a power trip.

This woman (and I am using this term losely) gets off on having this guy and calling him her boyfriend, while fvcking other men on the side.

When he left her, she lost all her powers and now she had to face the reality that she is just a hor.

Action speaks louder then words. There is no better advice out there for your friend. She will do this again, make no mistake about it. There are women out there who say they love their boyfriend's but then cheat and sleep around, are they really in love with them? another example is that there are women out there who say they hate their boyfriend's but always crawl back to them and never leave them, do they really hate them then?!! ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THEN WORDS! Words are meaningless if you can't back it up.
 

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you guys are so right. wish i could make my friend realize this. i wonder what he's gonna do when she cheats on him again. i dont want to be around when that happens.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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