"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can't figure out a way to get her

Nycbkdude

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So I REALLY like my doctors secretary.
I come into a orthopedics office and I see her beautiful glance right away.
The office is fully packed, a lot of patients.
The girl is behind the glass and there are 3 other secretaries there, I go directly to her to give my info.
We smiled made a little eye contact and she put me In the line before most people and told me "see I got you in quickly".

I have an appointment in a week it's always so busy plus so many co workers I don't know how to approach and pick her up?
She is so cute and classy though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheException

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Way to much emphasis on a girl my man...you're practically slobbering.

Just ask her out. If she accepts, great....if not.....great. Should never care that much when it comes to dating.
 

Between_The_Lines

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"I know you're busy so I'll make this fast - give me your number and let's get together sometime soon"
 
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