mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yes divorce will take a rip out of a man. The more a man respects himself and the better he treats himself, the better life treats him in turn. The alternative is to complain about the ill treatment or do nothing about it, causing more of it to occur. Or to divorce and see all women as broken or bad and in turn thats all you attract and see. Or to keep complaining about women after your divorce, preserving your place in misery and limited thinking.One sets the vibe of a relationship in the beginning. She starts acting up, you put her on notice, happens again, you leave. If this happens in marriage, once again, you leave. It may hurt a bit, financially and emotionally, but most courts are now preferring 50/50 custody... At least in the New England States.
Our mind starts to construct the reality of what we are focused upon.