"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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can't.. f*** close..

foomee

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ok so anyways.. i'm a college student, living on campus. and i met this girl a few nights ago. we made out like crazy on friday, and also lastnight saturday. we had both of our shirts and her bra off, but we still kept our pants on.. we'd be making out and everything and she'd have her hand down my pants feeling me and everything.. she'd let me put my hand down the back, but not the front of her pants. she'd pull it away and say "no". now usually for me, a girl would let me if she's already doing it to me. i mean, i really thought she was turned on quite a bit.. or maybe she just wasn't ready to take it further. what could i do to engage it further? i mean we were in my bed making out for like 4 hours straight and just slept together the rest of the night. do i need to turn her on more somehow? or just wait till she's ready..?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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See if you can grab the Mystery Method DVD track involving LMR. I've found that his theory for Freeze-outs would work perfectly for your situation.

When a girl says "no," say "I understand" and stop all intimate interaction. Turn the lights back on and flip on the TV or go check your email. Ask her if she wants something to drink. This is called a freeze-out. As DeAngelo says, when a woman pulls back, you pull back farther. Let her know, subliminally, that when she says no, you get instantly turned off. Don't try to get her even more aroused or try any of the emotional blackmail cards. A simple freeze-out of five to fifteen minutes will do quite well.

-Damian
 

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Originally posted by Damian
See if you can grab the Mystery Method DVD track involving LMR. I've found that his theory for Freeze-outs would work perfectly for your situation.

When a girl says "no," say "I understand" and stop all intimate interaction. Turn the lights back on and flip on the TV or go check your email. Ask her if she wants something to drink. This is called a freeze-out. As DeAngelo says, when a woman pulls back, you pull back farther. Let her know, subliminally, that when she says no, you get instantly turned off. Don't try to get her even more aroused or try any of the emotional blackmail cards. A simple freeze-out of five to fifteen minutes will do quite well.

-Damian
Fantastic advice, Wanna fukk her? Allow yourself to be seen with other women in her presence. Let her know that you will get satisfaction from them, if not her.
 

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Originally posted by johnmich
it cudda been that time of the month

yeah... that's what i was thinking.
also, she did say next weekend we will. so until then, ill have to wait.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dats some pf the best advice/techniques I've hear. The freeze out , I love it. If she said that next weeken yall will then she's probably on her period.

You'll be ok though, good luck
 

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i mean we were in my bed making out for like 4 hours straight and just slept together the rest of the night.
LOL .. that's worse than rejection!

She wants to reserve something for you better in the future .. A.K.A. her pvssy. In other words, she wants you to call her again.
 
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