"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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can't.. f*** close..

foomee

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ok so anyways.. i'm a college student, living on campus. and i met this girl a few nights ago. we made out like crazy on friday, and also lastnight saturday. we had both of our shirts and her bra off, but we still kept our pants on.. we'd be making out and everything and she'd have her hand down my pants feeling me and everything.. she'd let me put my hand down the back, but not the front of her pants. she'd pull it away and say "no". now usually for me, a girl would let me if she's already doing it to me. i mean, i really thought she was turned on quite a bit.. or maybe she just wasn't ready to take it further. what could i do to engage it further? i mean we were in my bed making out for like 4 hours straight and just slept together the rest of the night. do i need to turn her on more somehow? or just wait till she's ready..?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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See if you can grab the Mystery Method DVD track involving LMR. I've found that his theory for Freeze-outs would work perfectly for your situation.

When a girl says "no," say "I understand" and stop all intimate interaction. Turn the lights back on and flip on the TV or go check your email. Ask her if she wants something to drink. This is called a freeze-out. As DeAngelo says, when a woman pulls back, you pull back farther. Let her know, subliminally, that when she says no, you get instantly turned off. Don't try to get her even more aroused or try any of the emotional blackmail cards. A simple freeze-out of five to fifteen minutes will do quite well.

-Damian
 

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Originally posted by Damian
See if you can grab the Mystery Method DVD track involving LMR. I've found that his theory for Freeze-outs would work perfectly for your situation.

When a girl says "no," say "I understand" and stop all intimate interaction. Turn the lights back on and flip on the TV or go check your email. Ask her if she wants something to drink. This is called a freeze-out. As DeAngelo says, when a woman pulls back, you pull back farther. Let her know, subliminally, that when she says no, you get instantly turned off. Don't try to get her even more aroused or try any of the emotional blackmail cards. A simple freeze-out of five to fifteen minutes will do quite well.

-Damian
Fantastic advice, Wanna fukk her? Allow yourself to be seen with other women in her presence. Let her know that you will get satisfaction from them, if not her.
 

foomee

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Originally posted by johnmich
it cudda been that time of the month

yeah... that's what i was thinking.
also, she did say next weekend we will. so until then, ill have to wait.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dats some pf the best advice/techniques I've hear. The freeze out , I love it. If she said that next weeken yall will then she's probably on her period.

You'll be ok though, good luck
 

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i mean we were in my bed making out for like 4 hours straight and just slept together the rest of the night.
LOL .. that's worse than rejection!

She wants to reserve something for you better in the future .. A.K.A. her pvssy. In other words, she wants you to call her again.
 
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