"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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can't.. f*** close..

foomee

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ok so anyways.. i'm a college student, living on campus. and i met this girl a few nights ago. we made out like crazy on friday, and also lastnight saturday. we had both of our shirts and her bra off, but we still kept our pants on.. we'd be making out and everything and she'd have her hand down my pants feeling me and everything.. she'd let me put my hand down the back, but not the front of her pants. she'd pull it away and say "no". now usually for me, a girl would let me if she's already doing it to me. i mean, i really thought she was turned on quite a bit.. or maybe she just wasn't ready to take it further. what could i do to engage it further? i mean we were in my bed making out for like 4 hours straight and just slept together the rest of the night. do i need to turn her on more somehow? or just wait till she's ready..?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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See if you can grab the Mystery Method DVD track involving LMR. I've found that his theory for Freeze-outs would work perfectly for your situation.

When a girl says "no," say "I understand" and stop all intimate interaction. Turn the lights back on and flip on the TV or go check your email. Ask her if she wants something to drink. This is called a freeze-out. As DeAngelo says, when a woman pulls back, you pull back farther. Let her know, subliminally, that when she says no, you get instantly turned off. Don't try to get her even more aroused or try any of the emotional blackmail cards. A simple freeze-out of five to fifteen minutes will do quite well.

-Damian
 

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Originally posted by Damian
See if you can grab the Mystery Method DVD track involving LMR. I've found that his theory for Freeze-outs would work perfectly for your situation.

When a girl says "no," say "I understand" and stop all intimate interaction. Turn the lights back on and flip on the TV or go check your email. Ask her if she wants something to drink. This is called a freeze-out. As DeAngelo says, when a woman pulls back, you pull back farther. Let her know, subliminally, that when she says no, you get instantly turned off. Don't try to get her even more aroused or try any of the emotional blackmail cards. A simple freeze-out of five to fifteen minutes will do quite well.

-Damian
Fantastic advice, Wanna fukk her? Allow yourself to be seen with other women in her presence. Let her know that you will get satisfaction from them, if not her.
 

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Originally posted by johnmich
it cudda been that time of the month

yeah... that's what i was thinking.
also, she did say next weekend we will. so until then, ill have to wait.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dats some pf the best advice/techniques I've hear. The freeze out , I love it. If she said that next weeken yall will then she's probably on her period.

You'll be ok though, good luck
 

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i mean we were in my bed making out for like 4 hours straight and just slept together the rest of the night.
LOL .. that's worse than rejection!

She wants to reserve something for you better in the future .. A.K.A. her pvssy. In other words, she wants you to call her again.
 
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