"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Can't Drink Alcohol - Need Excuse

green69

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I have just gotten over a bout of mono and the symptoms have quickly diminished over the last month. I've been 100% for the last week, and basically 90% for the past month. Research varies says you should avoid alcohol during mono, and at least a month afterwards because of elevated liver enzymes. Other sites say liver enzymes return to normal after about three months after the start of infection (which was about 2-3 months ago now I'm guessing). But the problem is I'm not exactly sure how or when I got mono so it's hard to say how long I have to abstain from alcohol.

I'm going out tomorrow night and I'm gonna avoid alcohol for a couple more weeks. There are gonna be a lot of girls there at this get together and they will ask why I'm not drinking. I don't think saying "oh it's because I had mono" is a great line because then I get all sorts of questions and connotations like "oh he must have got it from some random hoe" and of course there's always the idea in the back of their head that I could still be contagious. I don't want to kill the vibe or reduce my chances of hooking up because of an illness I had not too long ago.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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-I do stupid **** when i get drunk
-Just say you have your reasons and leave it a that.
-something about fitness
-your the designated driver
ect ect

there are endless excuses.
 

Sir-M

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Daddy The Pimp said:
You dont need reasons . C'mon man , dont be wussy approval seeker .You can also drink juice and tell them your drinkin gin and juice or something like that .

But anyway , you could also say , i dont wanna drink because girls take advantage of me when im drunk.
... yeah.. seriously.. you dont need an excuse. do what you want and do not try and find a justification for it... tell them you just dont feel like it.. period..

"i dont wanna drink because girls take advantage of me when im drunk".. lol... if shes into you.. watch her body language closely when you say this.... she will probably laugh it off. give you a small punch ( or something like that) to tell you she wants you..

hmmm. then again its probably me just dreaming..
 

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Uhh...tell them the f*ckin truth...toolbag.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't lie, just be like "I can't drink because I was sick and the doc says no alcohol for a while."
 
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