"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can't Drink Alcohol - Need Excuse

green69

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I have just gotten over a bout of mono and the symptoms have quickly diminished over the last month. I've been 100% for the last week, and basically 90% for the past month. Research varies says you should avoid alcohol during mono, and at least a month afterwards because of elevated liver enzymes. Other sites say liver enzymes return to normal after about three months after the start of infection (which was about 2-3 months ago now I'm guessing). But the problem is I'm not exactly sure how or when I got mono so it's hard to say how long I have to abstain from alcohol.

I'm going out tomorrow night and I'm gonna avoid alcohol for a couple more weeks. There are gonna be a lot of girls there at this get together and they will ask why I'm not drinking. I don't think saying "oh it's because I had mono" is a great line because then I get all sorts of questions and connotations like "oh he must have got it from some random hoe" and of course there's always the idea in the back of their head that I could still be contagious. I don't want to kill the vibe or reduce my chances of hooking up because of an illness I had not too long ago.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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-I do stupid **** when i get drunk
-Just say you have your reasons and leave it a that.
-something about fitness
-your the designated driver
ect ect

there are endless excuses.
 

Sir-M

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Daddy The Pimp said:
You dont need reasons . C'mon man , dont be wussy approval seeker .You can also drink juice and tell them your drinkin gin and juice or something like that .

But anyway , you could also say , i dont wanna drink because girls take advantage of me when im drunk.
... yeah.. seriously.. you dont need an excuse. do what you want and do not try and find a justification for it... tell them you just dont feel like it.. period..

"i dont wanna drink because girls take advantage of me when im drunk".. lol... if shes into you.. watch her body language closely when you say this.... she will probably laugh it off. give you a small punch ( or something like that) to tell you she wants you..

hmmm. then again its probably me just dreaming..
 

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Uhh...tell them the f*ckin truth...toolbag.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't lie, just be like "I can't drink because I was sick and the doc says no alcohol for a while."
 
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