"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can't believe what I saw

slitherjef

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A long day at work, Im on bus #2 headed home. I sat down, looked up and seen a couple. A hot, slim latin chick, solid 7 probably an 8. With an arm around her, sat a rather large guy. Clean shaven, glasses, decent haircut. Dude had sweatpants on, a rap shirt such as the ones that are "blinged out"

Yeah so!? Well, the dude was a butterball!! Had the shape of a turkey. Im serious! His arm was about the size of this girls calfs. A short dude, seriously had t!ts, I mean, noticable ones, probably around the size of his girlfriends. He did not just have a big gut, he was all around, pretty round. Sitting back, with his arm around this slim chick he was with, obviously got something going for him, unless the chick liked guys with t!ts as big as her own.

They say looks don't matter much. I guess they where right.

I posted this because I get down on my self alot because I got a belly and probably could stand to lose maybe 20 pounds and here this guy that had the shape of a damn turkey was with this slim ass nice looking chick. Sure gives me hope!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Seduction school was awesome.

Alas, the fat guy, who was the most energetic, yet the least good looking, was also the least successful. :(

I just remember the British redhead artist he was trying to nab at the end. Hearbreakingly hot (9+ to me). He was way over his head.
 

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There is great wisdom in the words "There is someone for everyone"

While it is great and necessary to improve yourself physically, keep in mind that human tastes and preferences are wide and varied.

Some girls actually like plump dudes. Others are into tall skinny's. A small minority of girls I know dig the buff, meathead fellows..kind of ironic how most girls I know think gymrats with six-packs look gay.

Anyways, my point is that you should be working all fronts of your game. Work to get in good physical shape.. but don't do it to impress the ladies cause you never know what they really like. Do it to be healthy and feel good about yourself. Exercise relieves stress, boosts confidence and gives you an endorphin rush, what more could you ask for?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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looks matter!!!!!!!!!!!!

and the example you provided clearly shows it - the girl likes a big man with plenty of muscle (I am sure that guy is so strong that he can crush any of us), and she's willing to not care if he's fat too, because she thinks THAT TYPE OF LOOK IS HOT

what, you think all girls prefer lean muscle? get outta here, if you had any sort of experience, you would know that some hot girls think that bigger men are hot, because they feel safe in their presence.

Also, its not really "looks" that matter, its more like "the look" that matters. Aka if that same guy was some WOrld or Warcraft geek, then he wouldnt have that chick with him........but since he's got a hot "look", then BINGO he's in

EVERY GUY HAS A CHANCE TO HAVE "THE HOT LOOK", even if he is a 3 lookswise, he can change his appearance enough to attract some hot girls (aka tan, gym, style, haircut, jewelry, swagger)
 

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Her brother. Her client. Her priest. Her back scratcher. Maybe she was blind.

A really fat guy and a HB7-8? Get outta here... Not without massive social proof/ money/ power. Or your concept of HB1-10 needs revision.
 

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Phyzzle said:
Seduction school was awesome.

Alas, the fat guy, who was the most energetic, yet the least good looking, was also the least successful. :(

I just remember the British redhead artist he was trying to nab at the end. Hearbreakingly hot (9+ to me). He was way over his head.

Just curious. How do you know he was the least successful? He got her number but he didn't call her. Still, he was approaching and talking to girls at the end (5/5....unless there was more), so he didn't seem to be doing too bad. The tall guy did the best and really didn't have that much of a problem with his looks. Also, I think that the Fat guy did the best in the beginning, just because he got an actual positive responce (laughter)

Anyways, yeah. I loved it. I wish there was more stuff like this. It was awesome to see them going from where they started to being able to approach girls and they all improved their appearances too, makes me feel a lot more confident about my own physical appearance.
 
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