"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can't believe what I saw

slitherjef

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A long day at work, Im on bus #2 headed home. I sat down, looked up and seen a couple. A hot, slim latin chick, solid 7 probably an 8. With an arm around her, sat a rather large guy. Clean shaven, glasses, decent haircut. Dude had sweatpants on, a rap shirt such as the ones that are "blinged out"

Yeah so!? Well, the dude was a butterball!! Had the shape of a turkey. Im serious! His arm was about the size of this girls calfs. A short dude, seriously had t!ts, I mean, noticable ones, probably around the size of his girlfriends. He did not just have a big gut, he was all around, pretty round. Sitting back, with his arm around this slim chick he was with, obviously got something going for him, unless the chick liked guys with t!ts as big as her own.

They say looks don't matter much. I guess they where right.

I posted this because I get down on my self alot because I got a belly and probably could stand to lose maybe 20 pounds and here this guy that had the shape of a damn turkey was with this slim ass nice looking chick. Sure gives me hope!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Seduction school was awesome.

Alas, the fat guy, who was the most energetic, yet the least good looking, was also the least successful. :(

I just remember the British redhead artist he was trying to nab at the end. Hearbreakingly hot (9+ to me). He was way over his head.
 

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There is great wisdom in the words "There is someone for everyone"

While it is great and necessary to improve yourself physically, keep in mind that human tastes and preferences are wide and varied.

Some girls actually like plump dudes. Others are into tall skinny's. A small minority of girls I know dig the buff, meathead fellows..kind of ironic how most girls I know think gymrats with six-packs look gay.

Anyways, my point is that you should be working all fronts of your game. Work to get in good physical shape.. but don't do it to impress the ladies cause you never know what they really like. Do it to be healthy and feel good about yourself. Exercise relieves stress, boosts confidence and gives you an endorphin rush, what more could you ask for?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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looks matter!!!!!!!!!!!!

and the example you provided clearly shows it - the girl likes a big man with plenty of muscle (I am sure that guy is so strong that he can crush any of us), and she's willing to not care if he's fat too, because she thinks THAT TYPE OF LOOK IS HOT

what, you think all girls prefer lean muscle? get outta here, if you had any sort of experience, you would know that some hot girls think that bigger men are hot, because they feel safe in their presence.

Also, its not really "looks" that matter, its more like "the look" that matters. Aka if that same guy was some WOrld or Warcraft geek, then he wouldnt have that chick with him........but since he's got a hot "look", then BINGO he's in

EVERY GUY HAS A CHANCE TO HAVE "THE HOT LOOK", even if he is a 3 lookswise, he can change his appearance enough to attract some hot girls (aka tan, gym, style, haircut, jewelry, swagger)
 

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Her brother. Her client. Her priest. Her back scratcher. Maybe she was blind.

A really fat guy and a HB7-8? Get outta here... Not without massive social proof/ money/ power. Or your concept of HB1-10 needs revision.
 

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Phyzzle said:
Seduction school was awesome.

Alas, the fat guy, who was the most energetic, yet the least good looking, was also the least successful. :(

I just remember the British redhead artist he was trying to nab at the end. Hearbreakingly hot (9+ to me). He was way over his head.

Just curious. How do you know he was the least successful? He got her number but he didn't call her. Still, he was approaching and talking to girls at the end (5/5....unless there was more), so he didn't seem to be doing too bad. The tall guy did the best and really didn't have that much of a problem with his looks. Also, I think that the Fat guy did the best in the beginning, just because he got an actual positive responce (laughter)

Anyways, yeah. I loved it. I wish there was more stuff like this. It was awesome to see them going from where they started to being able to approach girls and they all improved their appearances too, makes me feel a lot more confident about my own physical appearance.
 
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