"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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long story short....met this girl at school bout 2 weeks ago she comes over to get her back blew out today after school and i cant get it up. DAMN. the whole time we were on the bus on the way back to my place i was falling asleep and i really wasnt in the mood for sex but i didnt wanna let an opportunity pass me up. if i wasnt in the mood i shouldve canceled on her. ohh well, an opportunity down the drain and shes probably gonna tell some of the other girls on campus. whats crazy is this usually only happens the first time i try to sleeep wit a new partner. but its not performance anxiety it just happens
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who cares.. I have the same problem with the first time usually. Just tell them that its normal, and the second time will be better. If you even half know what you are doing, you should have been getting her dripping wet and feeling awesome before you tried to have sex. Actually, before you even put your hands in her panties. Lie in bed with her, fool around a bit, keep making out and try again in half an hour or so. The most important thing is don't make a big deal out of it.
 
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update. the chick is still ****in wit me and her interest level seems like its increased. go figure. the messed up part is that ive lost interest. she calls me back to back to back if i dont pick up. and when i dont pick up she texts me sayin "y u not answering ur phone" and she would not leave me alone today on campus. although i didnt hit i guess i fingered her like noone ever has b4. idk. what do u guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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