"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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King_Supreme

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long story short....met this girl at school bout 2 weeks ago she comes over to get her back blew out today after school and i cant get it up. DAMN. the whole time we were on the bus on the way back to my place i was falling asleep and i really wasnt in the mood for sex but i didnt wanna let an opportunity pass me up. if i wasnt in the mood i shouldve canceled on her. ohh well, an opportunity down the drain and shes probably gonna tell some of the other girls on campus. whats crazy is this usually only happens the first time i try to sleeep wit a new partner. but its not performance anxiety it just happens
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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arutha

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Who cares.. I have the same problem with the first time usually. Just tell them that its normal, and the second time will be better. If you even half know what you are doing, you should have been getting her dripping wet and feeling awesome before you tried to have sex. Actually, before you even put your hands in her panties. Lie in bed with her, fool around a bit, keep making out and try again in half an hour or so. The most important thing is don't make a big deal out of it.
 

King_Supreme

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update. the chick is still ****in wit me and her interest level seems like its increased. go figure. the messed up part is that ive lost interest. she calls me back to back to back if i dont pick up. and when i dont pick up she texts me sayin "y u not answering ur phone" and she would not leave me alone today on campus. although i didnt hit i guess i fingered her like noone ever has b4. idk. what do u guys think?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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