Each to his own. Personally I've never met a woman who's attracted to bodybuilder physiquesStupidest comment I have read today. Dead serious.
Weightlifting increases a man's SMV and tones his face. Even without fat loss he will look better.
Also
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.