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Yes he has.Malice said:Backbreaker? Who knows if what he says is real. He has never even posted a pic of his woman
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes he has.Malice said:Backbreaker? Who knows if what he says is real. He has never even posted a pic of his woman
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Jaylan said:Are you gonna turn into cordoncordon and start showing off pics whenever you mention her?
You two should use the hate you both share for me and use it as the catalyst and pure bonding moment to turn your cackles (****les?) towards each other into a homo erotic bro love fest.Malice said:I am no cordon. You see me bragging about being a millionaire? Looks are what makes a marriage. Why don't you go marry an ugly b!tch and be happy.
Huh?Malice said:You are in California and you say you have no access to foreign women? There are no foreign women there? You have got to be ****ting me. I am on the east coast and they are everywhere.
Out of all the comments in all of Sosuave, you're making that one the reason for leaving.BeDJ said:It's time for me to leave SoSuave.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cordoncordon said:You two should use the hate you both share for me and use it as the catalyst and pure bonding moment to turn your cackles (****les?) towards each other into a homo erotic bro love fest.
I stated in the OP that this thread is about meeting foreign chics already in the country. I'm not down with flying around the world to meet women.Peaks&Valleys said:Huh?
You talking about chicks that have moved here from other countries? I'm sure some stick to their roots...
Out of all the comments in all of Sosuave, you're making that one the reason for leaving.
California does have a lot of Mexicans. I can't recall dating any that originally lived in Mexico. I've dated a few who had currently lived in Mexico when I used to go down there, long time ago though. But wasn't really interested in shacking up back then.skinnyguy said:The East Coast is FULL of Russian women. You just don't see them on the West Coast.
The West coast is full of Chinese women, but they aren't attractive to me. I'll leave them to the white guys who can't get girlfriends.
Where is your hot girlfriend you speak of? She must be a 10 since you are shaming guys like a woman. Let's see a pic.skinnyguy said:I'll leave them to the white guys who can't get girlfriends.
I'm sorry skinnyguy, I misread your post. IF you are beta. But if you are worth 2 sh!ts and act like a man, she will never leave you. If you get her because you are a loser and can't get anyone else, she will leave you.skinnyguy said:If you're beta, foreign women will just want you for money and a green card .
Next.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Peaks&Valleys said:I agree Jaylan
BeDJ said:It's time for me to leave SoSuave.
Jaylan's views are anti-hetero-male. Why do you think members call him Gaylan?Peaks&Valleys said:Out of all the comments in all of Sosuave, you're making that one the reason for leaving.
So? He said something I agree with.BeDJ said:Jaylan's views are anti-hetero-male. Why do you think members call him Gaylan?
This^^^^^^ is the whole purpose of this forum. If everyone were to run off to foreign countries and get married, then....................................sosuave would not exist, there would be no reason for it.Jaylan said:This forum is meant to help men get better with the women around them. This generally means getting better with Western women.
okayBeDJ said:You know that Jaylan's quote you glued on your fridge is the gayest sh!t ever. To quote:
This forum is meant to help men get better with women around them.
The fact that you don't see the subliminal instigation of that quote shows you are still in My Little Pony land.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't know either, maybe we should just hang out and watch a movie or something.BeDJ said:Yeah, I don't know why we fight. Your words truly hurt.......
I criticized and hated on cordoncordon for years on this forum it's no secret. I would like to make a public apology to him for the things I said about him and his girlfriend. Haven't had the chance because I have been away from the forums for some time and recently started being active again.Originally Posted by Jaylan
Are you gonna turn into cordoncordon and start showing off pics whenever you mention her?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.