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Yes he has.Malice said:Backbreaker? Who knows if what he says is real. He has never even posted a pic of his woman
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes he has.Malice said:Backbreaker? Who knows if what he says is real. He has never even posted a pic of his woman
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Jaylan said:Are you gonna turn into cordoncordon and start showing off pics whenever you mention her?
You two should use the hate you both share for me and use it as the catalyst and pure bonding moment to turn your cackles (****les?) towards each other into a homo erotic bro love fest.Malice said:I am no cordon. You see me bragging about being a millionaire? Looks are what makes a marriage. Why don't you go marry an ugly b!tch and be happy.
Huh?Malice said:You are in California and you say you have no access to foreign women? There are no foreign women there? You have got to be ****ting me. I am on the east coast and they are everywhere.
Out of all the comments in all of Sosuave, you're making that one the reason for leaving.BeDJ said:It's time for me to leave SoSuave.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
cordoncordon said:You two should use the hate you both share for me and use it as the catalyst and pure bonding moment to turn your cackles (****les?) towards each other into a homo erotic bro love fest.
I stated in the OP that this thread is about meeting foreign chics already in the country. I'm not down with flying around the world to meet women.Peaks&Valleys said:Huh?
You talking about chicks that have moved here from other countries? I'm sure some stick to their roots...
Out of all the comments in all of Sosuave, you're making that one the reason for leaving.
California does have a lot of Mexicans. I can't recall dating any that originally lived in Mexico. I've dated a few who had currently lived in Mexico when I used to go down there, long time ago though. But wasn't really interested in shacking up back then.skinnyguy said:The East Coast is FULL of Russian women. You just don't see them on the West Coast.
The West coast is full of Chinese women, but they aren't attractive to me. I'll leave them to the white guys who can't get girlfriends.
Where is your hot girlfriend you speak of? She must be a 10 since you are shaming guys like a woman. Let's see a pic.skinnyguy said:I'll leave them to the white guys who can't get girlfriends.
I'm sorry skinnyguy, I misread your post. IF you are beta. But if you are worth 2 sh!ts and act like a man, she will never leave you. If you get her because you are a loser and can't get anyone else, she will leave you.skinnyguy said:If you're beta, foreign women will just want you for money and a green card .
Next.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Peaks&Valleys said:I agree Jaylan
BeDJ said:It's time for me to leave SoSuave.
Jaylan's views are anti-hetero-male. Why do you think members call him Gaylan?Peaks&Valleys said:Out of all the comments in all of Sosuave, you're making that one the reason for leaving.
So? He said something I agree with.BeDJ said:Jaylan's views are anti-hetero-male. Why do you think members call him Gaylan?
This^^^^^^ is the whole purpose of this forum. If everyone were to run off to foreign countries and get married, then....................................sosuave would not exist, there would be no reason for it.Jaylan said:This forum is meant to help men get better with the women around them. This generally means getting better with Western women.
okayBeDJ said:You know that Jaylan's quote you glued on your fridge is the gayest sh!t ever. To quote:
This forum is meant to help men get better with women around them.
The fact that you don't see the subliminal instigation of that quote shows you are still in My Little Pony land.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't know either, maybe we should just hang out and watch a movie or something.BeDJ said:Yeah, I don't know why we fight. Your words truly hurt.......
I criticized and hated on cordoncordon for years on this forum it's no secret. I would like to make a public apology to him for the things I said about him and his girlfriend. Haven't had the chance because I have been away from the forums for some time and recently started being active again.Originally Posted by Jaylan
Are you gonna turn into cordoncordon and start showing off pics whenever you mention her?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.