"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't know why, I feel like after I learned game I had this need to help other guys.... and it never went away.... and it gets me fired alot, like today. Dude I work with was telling me about his pant wearing gf who basically makes the rules and calls the shot. Textbook case guy and absolutely did not like it when I started talking game and giving him some tips and tricks. I just, I just CANT let these train wrecks happen, even if it means jumping into the path of the oncoming train. I must have some personally disorder or something, I'm just wondering if its game related.... anyway I was fired at the end of the shift. :D

White Knights gonna knight.

Do you feel that need to evangelize or do you prefer to watch the train wreck?

Not worried about the job, my friend (extreme red pill) asked me to come and work as the district manager at his company but still, whenever I see a knight in the wild, its like, the lance comes down and I can't resist the call to joust. I'm moving back out East, I've yet to meet even ONE PUA here but there is an army of fem-pandering knights at the ready.

 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the train wreck is inevitable... the brainwashing is too strong. Not only that, but these guys always think they're right.

Arrogance or Overconfidence...

 

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sounds to me like you just like to interfere in other people's lives. Why do you gaf about what some fool does or thinks, hmm?
 

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Eh, it's nice you still have an innate desire to help strangers, I lost that long ago in all respects, and reserve all my energy for people who have earned it. Admittedly, yours is the more Buddhist/Christian way.

Another reason I don't do it any more is that WKs have a tendency to turn into well-poisoners. "He doesn't love you, he told me you are just a 'plate'." Better to say nothing to them about women at all unless they ask for help.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Textbook case guy and absolutely did not like it when I started talking game and giving him some tips and tricks.... .... anyway I was fired at the end of the shift.

I feel like you might be glossing over a few details, perhaps?
 

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Mate u help plenty of guys here. Where people want help.

Keep it inside the tent bro.
I concur with this. Help guys here where they want help . This issue of helping blue pill guys is one area where online (SS) is a better use of time than real life. I have tried to help so many guys I know and meet in life and only maybe 1 or 2 of many dozen have ever actually listened and implemented. I was the same way when I was blue pill. The guy who first sent me here to SS tried to talk to me but I wouldn't hear it. It was only after my ex wife gave me the standard boot that I was ready to even begin my journey to be a real man. It's just the way it is. I was part of the problem and I still can't explain why.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's why the red pill/blue pill analogy. The blue pillers are completely in the dark and what a red-piller says actually defies his perceived reality. Hence, lots of resistance.

I think it's far better to steer people to this site than to try to address them personally in most (but not all) cases, especially when it has to do with coworkers. The awakening is usually a process that comes to fruition over time.
 

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is it not our job as men to help others and spread the good word? Civilization wasn't built by one man.
Only help those who seek.

A One Man Dynasty will triumph over any collective nonsense society portrays. The great kings realized this long ago.
 
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