"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know why, I feel like after I learned game I had this need to help other guys.... and it never went away.... and it gets me fired alot, like today. Dude I work with was telling me about his pant wearing gf who basically makes the rules and calls the shot. Textbook case guy and absolutely did not like it when I started talking game and giving him some tips and tricks. I just, I just CANT let these train wrecks happen, even if it means jumping into the path of the oncoming train. I must have some personally disorder or something, I'm just wondering if its game related.... anyway I was fired at the end of the shift. :D

White Knights gonna knight.

Do you feel that need to evangelize or do you prefer to watch the train wreck?

Not worried about the job, my friend (extreme red pill) asked me to come and work as the district manager at his company but still, whenever I see a knight in the wild, its like, the lance comes down and I can't resist the call to joust. I'm moving back out East, I've yet to meet even ONE PUA here but there is an army of fem-pandering knights at the ready.

 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the train wreck is inevitable... the brainwashing is too strong. Not only that, but these guys always think they're right.

Arrogance or Overconfidence...

 

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sounds to me like you just like to interfere in other people's lives. Why do you gaf about what some fool does or thinks, hmm?
 

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Eh, it's nice you still have an innate desire to help strangers, I lost that long ago in all respects, and reserve all my energy for people who have earned it. Admittedly, yours is the more Buddhist/Christian way.

Another reason I don't do it any more is that WKs have a tendency to turn into well-poisoners. "He doesn't love you, he told me you are just a 'plate'." Better to say nothing to them about women at all unless they ask for help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Textbook case guy and absolutely did not like it when I started talking game and giving him some tips and tricks.... .... anyway I was fired at the end of the shift.

I feel like you might be glossing over a few details, perhaps?
 

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Mate u help plenty of guys here. Where people want help.

Keep it inside the tent bro.
I concur with this. Help guys here where they want help . This issue of helping blue pill guys is one area where online (SS) is a better use of time than real life. I have tried to help so many guys I know and meet in life and only maybe 1 or 2 of many dozen have ever actually listened and implemented. I was the same way when I was blue pill. The guy who first sent me here to SS tried to talk to me but I wouldn't hear it. It was only after my ex wife gave me the standard boot that I was ready to even begin my journey to be a real man. It's just the way it is. I was part of the problem and I still can't explain why.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's why the red pill/blue pill analogy. The blue pillers are completely in the dark and what a red-piller says actually defies his perceived reality. Hence, lots of resistance.

I think it's far better to steer people to this site than to try to address them personally in most (but not all) cases, especially when it has to do with coworkers. The awakening is usually a process that comes to fruition over time.
 

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is it not our job as men to help others and spread the good word? Civilization wasn't built by one man.
Only help those who seek.

A One Man Dynasty will triumph over any collective nonsense society portrays. The great kings realized this long ago.
 
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