"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cancelling Last Minute?

Based on what I described, what is this girl?

  • Ditz

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Playing hard to get

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Not willing to reject me

    Votes: 2 100.0%
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HPUser7

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Over the summer, I tried to set a date up with a girl twice; both times she came up with an excuse like "I forgot I had guitar practice at that time." Then she got back with her old boyfriend and we stopped talking. Recently, she broke up and has been initiating messages with me (although mostly on plutonic topics like college). I tried again to set up a date, but this time she cancelled because she "forgot she had church". These excuses seem kind of lame. Is she just a ditz, playing games to make me like her more, or not willing to reject me the hard way?
How should I proceed with her? (also, not a case of oneitis on my part; she just happens to be my most viable candidate at this time, but dropping her is an option).
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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yungballa

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Don't reply to her. She's not interested in you otherwise she would have agreed to go on a date with you. It's simple math. If a girl honestly likes you, she'll make the time of day or even reschedule to go on a date with you. On the other hand, if she doesn't like you she'll come up with lame excuses like the ones you pointed out above just to avoid going on a date with you. Simple math my friend. Erase her from your life and move forward to the next girl.

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