"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cancelling Last Minute?

Based on what I described, what is this girl?

  • Ditz

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Playing hard to get

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Not willing to reject me

    Votes: 2 100.0%
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HPUser7

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Over the summer, I tried to set a date up with a girl twice; both times she came up with an excuse like "I forgot I had guitar practice at that time." Then she got back with her old boyfriend and we stopped talking. Recently, she broke up and has been initiating messages with me (although mostly on plutonic topics like college). I tried again to set up a date, but this time she cancelled because she "forgot she had church". These excuses seem kind of lame. Is she just a ditz, playing games to make me like her more, or not willing to reject me the hard way?
How should I proceed with her? (also, not a case of oneitis on my part; she just happens to be my most viable candidate at this time, but dropping her is an option).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yungballa

yungballa

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Don't reply to her. She's not interested in you otherwise she would have agreed to go on a date with you. It's simple math. If a girl honestly likes you, she'll make the time of day or even reschedule to go on a date with you. On the other hand, if she doesn't like you she'll come up with lame excuses like the ones you pointed out above just to avoid going on a date with you. Simple math my friend. Erase her from your life and move forward to the next girl.

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