"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cancelling Last Minute?

Based on what I described, what is this girl?

  • Ditz

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Playing hard to get

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Not willing to reject me

    Votes: 2 100.0%
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HPUser7

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Over the summer, I tried to set a date up with a girl twice; both times she came up with an excuse like "I forgot I had guitar practice at that time." Then she got back with her old boyfriend and we stopped talking. Recently, she broke up and has been initiating messages with me (although mostly on plutonic topics like college). I tried again to set up a date, but this time she cancelled because she "forgot she had church". These excuses seem kind of lame. Is she just a ditz, playing games to make me like her more, or not willing to reject me the hard way?
How should I proceed with her? (also, not a case of oneitis on my part; she just happens to be my most viable candidate at this time, but dropping her is an option).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yungballa

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Don't reply to her. She's not interested in you otherwise she would have agreed to go on a date with you. It's simple math. If a girl honestly likes you, she'll make the time of day or even reschedule to go on a date with you. On the other hand, if she doesn't like you she'll come up with lame excuses like the ones you pointed out above just to avoid going on a date with you. Simple math my friend. Erase her from your life and move forward to the next girl.

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