Great post. Dating apps are awesome for men but they def benefit women equally if not more. One slip up and your nexted. Even if you play things perfect she’s talking to multiple guys and if she’s hot enough good chance you’ll be out alpha’d
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeah, dating and relationships are a MAJOR pain in the ass these days. If women and men would just quit trying to "out-game" each other, we wouldn't have 90% of the problems we have. The problem with women that pull stuff like you described is time always catches up with them. Always. They'll sit around b!tching about "why cant I find a decent guy? How come I cant find a guy with a job? How come all the guys that hit on me now are losers?". Well, that's because you burned all your bridges when something was going well because you thought the grass was greener on the other side, you eventually ran out of decent men and are now left with fat losers that don't have any money, and the guys you dropped are not interested in you anymore.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
Yep, everyone playing games and living in fear. And it becomes exacerbated as we age and people carry around more and more baggage. Projecting their insecurities and seeking for this idyllic relationship which comes packaged and ready made.
Women rarely look within themselves to sort out the issues they deal with. It’s always the man’s fault. But hey, most women end up settling for a decent ‘connection’ rather than something deeply meaningful. Then divorce is pending around 45. It’s all fear in dating now. Too many choices and so little satisfaction because people don’t want to work through issues. Running against a clock and seeking the total package.
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I dont disagree with you, I just dont have much faith that most people know how to create something 'deeply meaningful' you know?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
And you know interest declines over time complying to dates.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I’m not fooling myself to think I’ll ever find or have what my grandparents had, which is married for 54 years. They came from the old generation and went through WW2 and Korea. My grandpa was an alpha though, he met my grandma by walking up to her at a dance and cutting in on her and her date.lol