“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Turns out the slvt is engaged now but I had no idea
All this time she acted like she was single

Found out through a mutual friend of ours that I still talked too

Checked out her facebook and she has all this engagement pics with the bf

We were going to hang out this weekend she booked a hotel for 3 days . Fri .. sat and sunday

I went full blown nc today, I feel Terrible for the bf and I feel like sending him all the emails and text messages we bein having .. I'm fvcken infuriated poor guy, and by the looks of it the bf is a full blown afc

Some fvcked tup sh!!!tttt
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Then stop making useless threads.

I'll always be rooting for you, but when you make topics like this, it makes me consider otherwise. I want Jair123 to become the best he can be. Posting threads like this is hindering your growth.
 

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BeDJ said:
Then stop making useless threads.

I'll always be rooting for you, but when you make topics like this, it makes me consider otherwise. I want Jair123 to become the best he can be. Posting threads like this is hindering your growth.
True
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jair213 said:
Turns out the slvt is engaged now but I had no idea
All this time she acted like she was single

Found out through a mutual friend of ours that I still talked too

Checked out her facebook and she has all this engagement pics with the bf

We were going to hang out this weekend she booked a hotel for 3 days . Fri .. sat and sunday

I went full blown nc today, I feel Terrible for the bf and I feel like sending him all the emails and text messages we bein having .. I'm fvcken infuriated poor guy, and by the looks of it the bf is a full blown afc

Some fvcked tup sh!!!tttt

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man this is hilarious, here you have a bpd ex and you act surprised she would do this. classic!


who do you think bpd's latch on to? afc's so they can abuse them, you should know all about that.


logicallefty said:
I would for sure contact the BF. Although if he is AFC he will probably forgive her. I at least hope you got a few cvm dumps out of her for all of your troubles.
i wouldn't, its best to stay out of people's business and affairs, the bf might not believe him, if he brings it up to her she will lie about it, maybe turn crazy if he gets mad and tries to leave. he's dumb enough to get engaged to her, let him find out that hard way
 
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I would for sure contact the BF. Although if he is AFC he will probably forgive her. I at least hope you got a few cvm dumps out of her for all of your troubles.
 

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It doesn't sound like she was trying to hide anything, if it's all on facebook.

Just fyi, I don't know if this applies here, but some couples have a sex fetish about the other one cheating on them. I have met both men and women like that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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logicallefty said:
I would for sure contact the BF. Although if he is AFC he will probably forgive her. I at least hope you got a few cvm dumps out of her for all of your troubles.
Unplug that dude hard. It's going to break him, but he will get over it. :up:
 

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Just dodged the bullet of death.

She messaged me that she doesn't know
watt to do with her relationship with the current guy
She got tested positive for HIV on Monday ....

I'm in complete shock


Damn
 

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Sh1t !!! Block her for good now !
 

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Don't feel sorry for her.

I always make sure new girlfriends get tested for STI's before the condoms get thrown out. Even if they say they are clean, I wanna see them results. She should have done the same.

She is pretty unlucky though. The chances of contracting HIV from having sex with an infected person is like 1 in 1000.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bigger question in all this Jair is for you.

Why are you associating with this whack job, esp when you know she's crazy.

I've seriously dated 2 curtained grade A crazies in the past 10 years. Looking back I can say both times I was in a transitional point in my life, figuring things out & therefore more susceptible to their allure.

When things are all on the up & up, I've noticed that I don't allow the relationships I form with crazy women, BPD or not to go past a casual fuvk buddy or acquaintance.

I'm not too far from LA, I know there is an ocean of crazy byatches in Hollywood, but you need to figure out why you are attracted to these women in the first place to break the cycle.








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Jair213 said:
Just dodged the bullet of death.

She messaged me that she doesn't know
watt to do with her relationship with the current guy
She got tested positive for HIV on Monday ....

I'm in complete shock


Damn
2 to 1 odds she's making it up. Fvcking BPD's are absolute nutsos. :crazy:
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
2 to 1 odds she's making it up. Fvcking BPD's are absolute nutsos. :crazy:
Yup. she's proby pissed you canceled and wanted to give you a scare.
 
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