“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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canceled mini vacation with bpd ex

Jair213

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Turns out the slvt is engaged now but I had no idea
All this time she acted like she was single

Found out through a mutual friend of ours that I still talked too

Checked out her facebook and she has all this engagement pics with the bf

We were going to hang out this weekend she booked a hotel for 3 days . Fri .. sat and sunday

I went full blown nc today, I feel Terrible for the bf and I feel like sending him all the emails and text messages we bein having .. I'm fvcken infuriated poor guy, and by the looks of it the bf is a full blown afc

Some fvcked tup sh!!!tttt
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Then stop making useless threads.

I'll always be rooting for you, but when you make topics like this, it makes me consider otherwise. I want Jair123 to become the best he can be. Posting threads like this is hindering your growth.
 

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BeDJ said:
Then stop making useless threads.

I'll always be rooting for you, but when you make topics like this, it makes me consider otherwise. I want Jair123 to become the best he can be. Posting threads like this is hindering your growth.
True
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Jair213 said:
Turns out the slvt is engaged now but I had no idea
All this time she acted like she was single

Found out through a mutual friend of ours that I still talked too

Checked out her facebook and she has all this engagement pics with the bf

We were going to hang out this weekend she booked a hotel for 3 days . Fri .. sat and sunday

I went full blown nc today, I feel Terrible for the bf and I feel like sending him all the emails and text messages we bein having .. I'm fvcken infuriated poor guy, and by the looks of it the bf is a full blown afc

Some fvcked tup sh!!!tttt

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man this is hilarious, here you have a bpd ex and you act surprised she would do this. classic!


who do you think bpd's latch on to? afc's so they can abuse them, you should know all about that.


logicallefty said:
I would for sure contact the BF. Although if he is AFC he will probably forgive her. I at least hope you got a few cvm dumps out of her for all of your troubles.
i wouldn't, its best to stay out of people's business and affairs, the bf might not believe him, if he brings it up to her she will lie about it, maybe turn crazy if he gets mad and tries to leave. he's dumb enough to get engaged to her, let him find out that hard way
 
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I would for sure contact the BF. Although if he is AFC he will probably forgive her. I at least hope you got a few cvm dumps out of her for all of your troubles.
 

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It doesn't sound like she was trying to hide anything, if it's all on facebook.

Just fyi, I don't know if this applies here, but some couples have a sex fetish about the other one cheating on them. I have met both men and women like that.
 

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logicallefty said:
I would for sure contact the BF. Although if he is AFC he will probably forgive her. I at least hope you got a few cvm dumps out of her for all of your troubles.
Unplug that dude hard. It's going to break him, but he will get over it. :up:
 

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Just dodged the bullet of death.

She messaged me that she doesn't know
watt to do with her relationship with the current guy
She got tested positive for HIV on Monday ....

I'm in complete shock


Damn
 

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Sh1t !!! Block her for good now !
 

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Don't feel sorry for her.

I always make sure new girlfriends get tested for STI's before the condoms get thrown out. Even if they say they are clean, I wanna see them results. She should have done the same.

She is pretty unlucky though. The chances of contracting HIV from having sex with an infected person is like 1 in 1000.
 

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Bigger question in all this Jair is for you.

Why are you associating with this whack job, esp when you know she's crazy.

I've seriously dated 2 curtained grade A crazies in the past 10 years. Looking back I can say both times I was in a transitional point in my life, figuring things out & therefore more susceptible to their allure.

When things are all on the up & up, I've noticed that I don't allow the relationships I form with crazy women, BPD or not to go past a casual fuvk buddy or acquaintance.

I'm not too far from LA, I know there is an ocean of crazy byatches in Hollywood, but you need to figure out why you are attracted to these women in the first place to break the cycle.








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Jair213 said:
Just dodged the bullet of death.

She messaged me that she doesn't know
watt to do with her relationship with the current guy
She got tested positive for HIV on Monday ....

I'm in complete shock


Damn
2 to 1 odds she's making it up. Fvcking BPD's are absolute nutsos. :crazy:
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
2 to 1 odds she's making it up. Fvcking BPD's are absolute nutsos. :crazy:
Yup. she's proby pissed you canceled and wanted to give you a scare.
 
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