“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Canceled Date - Reschedule?

findus

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Hey guys,

I recently meet this really good-looking girl at a bar. My friend was interested in her girlfriend so it was a perfect two set. Anyways, I started to talk to her and she seemed really interesting. My friend and I suggested that both of them should tag along to a different bar, but they said that they had to wait for a friend. Instead she gave me her number and told me to text her later so we could meet up. Later that night I texted her and she showed up with her friends. We talked for quite a bit about everything, and came into the subject favorite restaurants. I told her that I'm a big meat guy and about my favorite restaurant. She then told me about her favorite steak restaurant (which I've never been to) and so I said that I needed to check it out sometime. It got late so I decided to go leave. When I got home she texted me saying: Did you get home safe? Me: Yes, did you leave yet? She: Yes. Me: Alright good, have a nice 20min something drive.. btw my bed is really comfy right now. She goes: Haha don't rub it in!! Me: I'm sorry/I'm not sorry.
After that I waited a day to text her and then just asked what she was doing and the name of her favorite steak restaurant. I then said that I have to go there, and that she should join me. She replied and said: Yes, sure I'm free any night during the week. My schedule is pretty busy so I suggested wednesday and she told me that was fine. The next day I was thinking not to text her (just to look a little absent, and not like a creeper); however, she texted me late at night saying: Hey I actually have a test on thursday morning we'll have to reschedule - sorry. I replied: Hey, yeah that's fine. I'm pretty busy during the week, but I might be able to go thursday if that works (prob a terrible answer). She: It's my last week of school so maybe next week? Me: Yeah alright we will figure something out.. Good luck on your last week

So my question is - Did I just get stood out, or do you think she is interested?? I don't really know how to play my cards from here. I've only meet her once and I feel like I need that date so we will have more to talk about. When should I text her, and should I reschedule?

Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

zinc4

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well...if i were u i would just let her come to me and of course keep meeting new women....if she never contacts you..oh well...she had her chance..she will contact you if her IL is good...you did your part now just let itself play itself out and drop her from your mind and focus on other chicks...besides she is just a random girl at a bar...no big deal...
 
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BeDJ

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Toss the number.

Next week = I feel guilty for giving him my number and rejecting a nice free dinner. I'll buy some time to blow him off and just tell him I have to visit family or something. Hopefully, he'll forget about me in a week because I can't say NO to people...
 

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well...if i were u i would just let her come to me and of course keep meeting new women....if she never contacts you..oh well

This^

Toss the number.

Not this^ theres no reason to toss the number as long as your not a needy beta blowing up her phone.

Me: Alright good, have a nice 20min something drive.. btw my bed is really comfy right now.

Pretty good text...BESIDES that atrocious bit about your bed lol. Dont hope for last ditch desperation attempts at sex.

After that I waited a day to text her and then just asked what she was doing

Time frame is cool, your text was not. Dont chit chat, you should have sent a short text about something funny when you guys were out at the bar. And i dont like to schedule a date the first time i text a girl. I think sometimes its too try-hard, by waiting a little you convey non-neediness and options.

I dont think your situation is that bad, maybe she really does have a test or maybe a girlfriend hit her up to hang out. Just dont text her first and if she contacts you its still game on.
 

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TheException said:
Me: Alright good, have a nice 20min something drive.. btw my bed is really comfy right now.

Pretty good text...BESIDES that atrocious bit about your bed lol. Dont hope for last ditch desperation attempts at sex.
Man I agree, but that part was just because she told me at the bar that she couldn't wait to put on her pajamas and crawl to bed. Very good input. I guess I'll just wait and see what happens.. What about if I see her out during the weekend again?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheException said:
Toss the number.

Not this^ theres no reason to toss the number as long as your not a needy beta blowing up her phone.
This is the result of the inability to generate and secure options. Scarcity mindset at play.

1) She shows up with friends.
2) She said she was free any night during the week.
3) Flakes after date confirmation.
4) Unless it is a pop quiz, if she has an exam, she knows about it well in advance.
5) 'Maybe next week'

This woman has low interest at best and advising to pursue is like convincing an orbiter he has a chance.

Drop her.
 
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