It's not uncommon for women to think I'm amazing, they like me so much that it scares them. I know I'm not that great though, just a regular good looking guy who has taken his game to a new level. It works on most women but I feel like quality women can sniff it out. I'm not knocking the teachings of this place but... Has being an alpha male and player ever cost you a woman you really loved or wanted a relationship with? Women don't ever seem to trust me when it comes to relationships and commitment ....I read that women are less likely to.trust masculine men as well. Any other dudes with high testosterone who deal with this bull****?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
can your game be so good ot hurts you
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girls don't avoid players. When they hear a guy is a player their vag gets wet. Even the highest quality girls.
They might say "no players please" but then they will turn around and get railed by some manwh0re.
Always let women know how much you're getting laid. This will cause them to respect you.
They might say "no players please" but then they will turn around and get railed by some manwh0re.
Always let women know how much you're getting laid. This will cause them to respect you.
JohnyTheArrow
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Maybe it is their game , to inflate your ego, we all love people who appreciate us,dont we ? Maybe you are good or maybe you are getting played and tricked into beliving you are good.captain55 said:
Look how inflated you are like someone just bought you a candy.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WanderingMan
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It think there's varying kinds of "game". At the two ends of the game spectrum you'd have: FB game & LTR game.
If, immediatley after meeting a woman (or in some cases before meeting her), you make her vagina all warm and fuzzy, some/most women will see you as some type of Alpha and-or a guy she just wants to bang, not initially caring or worrying if you two ever get into some type of LTR. Then there's the relationship game where you two "connect" and "click" and have "good chemistry" and "get along" and "have fun together", etc. (you get the point).
Different types of game for different types of relationships. One does not always work with the other. So, whatever the type of game is, the key is to be congruent. What ends up happening is, after getting to know a chick, guys get confused in what they want so they try to switch things up, which usually ends up leaving them with their ****s in their hands.
If, immediatley after meeting a woman (or in some cases before meeting her), you make her vagina all warm and fuzzy, some/most women will see you as some type of Alpha and-or a guy she just wants to bang, not initially caring or worrying if you two ever get into some type of LTR. Then there's the relationship game where you two "connect" and "click" and have "good chemistry" and "get along" and "have fun together", etc. (you get the point).
Different types of game for different types of relationships. One does not always work with the other. So, whatever the type of game is, the key is to be congruent. What ends up happening is, after getting to know a chick, guys get confused in what they want so they try to switch things up, which usually ends up leaving them with their ****s in their hands.
In my experience timing is more important than game. I've had ****ty game and gotten the girl because I came into her life at the right time. And I've had rediculous game and never gotten the lay. The only common variable is the faster I have gotten in a girls pants the easier everything else in the relationship was.
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It weeds out the low quality women sometimes.
Examples would be NPD or attention *****s (real ones)
They can't handle Not being the A side
Also control freaks, low self esteem women, BPDs etc will be intimidated
So yes it can "cost you" these types
Examples would be NPD or attention *****s (real ones)
They can't handle Not being the A side
Also control freaks, low self esteem women, BPDs etc will be intimidated
So yes it can "cost you" these types
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Like sales, it doesn't matter how good you are or think you are, you will not convert every lead.
Accept it, move on.
Accept it, move on.
captain55 said:
Yes....has been happening a lot to me lately with established career women...
They start saying crap like they know I'm just using her firbshort time fun and I can get younger prettier girls and get all self conscious when I'm aloof acting through texts...
I'm really good at kino now...so good that I get what I want immediately on the first date sometime s literally after 15 mins or so and they start rationalizing how quickly it went and start saying its obvious I do this to a lit of women not just them blah blah blah...keep as sex friends a few weeks and move on after they start pulling drama..