It's not uncommon for women to think I'm amazing, they like me so much that it scares them. I know I'm not that great though, just a regular good looking guy who has taken his game to a new level. It works on most women but I feel like quality women can sniff it out. I'm not knocking the teachings of this place but... Has being an alpha male and player ever cost you a woman you really loved or wanted a relationship with? Women don't ever seem to trust me when it comes to relationships and commitment ....I read that women are less likely to.trust masculine men as well. Any other dudes with high testosterone who deal with this bull****?
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can your game be so good ot hurts you
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Girls don't avoid players. When they hear a guy is a player their vag gets wet. Even the highest quality girls.
They might say "no players please" but then they will turn around and get railed by some manwh0re.
Always let women know how much you're getting laid. This will cause them to respect you.
They might say "no players please" but then they will turn around and get railed by some manwh0re.
Always let women know how much you're getting laid. This will cause them to respect you.
JohnyTheArrow
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Maybe it is their game , to inflate your ego, we all love people who appreciate us,dont we ? Maybe you are good or maybe you are getting played and tricked into beliving you are good.captain55 said:
Look how inflated you are like someone just bought you a candy.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
WanderingMan
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It think there's varying kinds of "game". At the two ends of the game spectrum you'd have: FB game & LTR game.
If, immediatley after meeting a woman (or in some cases before meeting her), you make her vagina all warm and fuzzy, some/most women will see you as some type of Alpha and-or a guy she just wants to bang, not initially caring or worrying if you two ever get into some type of LTR. Then there's the relationship game where you two "connect" and "click" and have "good chemistry" and "get along" and "have fun together", etc. (you get the point).
Different types of game for different types of relationships. One does not always work with the other. So, whatever the type of game is, the key is to be congruent. What ends up happening is, after getting to know a chick, guys get confused in what they want so they try to switch things up, which usually ends up leaving them with their ****s in their hands.
If, immediatley after meeting a woman (or in some cases before meeting her), you make her vagina all warm and fuzzy, some/most women will see you as some type of Alpha and-or a guy she just wants to bang, not initially caring or worrying if you two ever get into some type of LTR. Then there's the relationship game where you two "connect" and "click" and have "good chemistry" and "get along" and "have fun together", etc. (you get the point).
Different types of game for different types of relationships. One does not always work with the other. So, whatever the type of game is, the key is to be congruent. What ends up happening is, after getting to know a chick, guys get confused in what they want so they try to switch things up, which usually ends up leaving them with their ****s in their hands.
In my experience timing is more important than game. I've had ****ty game and gotten the girl because I came into her life at the right time. And I've had rediculous game and never gotten the lay. The only common variable is the faster I have gotten in a girls pants the easier everything else in the relationship was.
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It weeds out the low quality women sometimes.
Examples would be NPD or attention *****s (real ones)
They can't handle Not being the A side
Also control freaks, low self esteem women, BPDs etc will be intimidated
So yes it can "cost you" these types
Examples would be NPD or attention *****s (real ones)
They can't handle Not being the A side
Also control freaks, low self esteem women, BPDs etc will be intimidated
So yes it can "cost you" these types
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Like sales, it doesn't matter how good you are or think you are, you will not convert every lead.
Accept it, move on.
Accept it, move on.
captain55 said:
Yes....has been happening a lot to me lately with established career women...
They start saying crap like they know I'm just using her firbshort time fun and I can get younger prettier girls and get all self conscious when I'm aloof acting through texts...
I'm really good at kino now...so good that I get what I want immediately on the first date sometime s literally after 15 mins or so and they start rationalizing how quickly it went and start saying its obvious I do this to a lit of women not just them blah blah blah...keep as sex friends a few weeks and move on after they start pulling drama..