I'm just wondering what to do with these girls that apparently don't see me in a sexual way. It seems that most of the girls I meet are like this. Maybe they flake. Maybe they do like this one girl and never want to meet up but will talk to me on msn and talk about ****ing other guys (really? I've honestly don't care anymore and just say outrageous stuff to get a reaction out of her). Most of the time I just next them, but it's starting to get annoying (because I'm nexting girls fast, sometimes I run out of numbers). Am I supposed to just keep meeting women til I meet one that is into me from the get go? Or is there a way to fix one of these lost causes and maybe get her interested in me?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Can you turn around situations where a girl doesn't see you in a sexual way?
- Thread starter Scion
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
and then you sayScion said:I'm just wondering what to do with these girls that apparently don't see me in a sexual way.
WTF ARE YOU DOING TALKING TO B|TCHES ON MSN??????Maybe they do like this one girl and never want to meet up but will talk to me on msn and talk about ****ing other guys
Let me guess you asked for their msn right? don't lie brother i know it. Stop using facebook/msn/myspace with girls you're trying to dig out! You're out to be their lover not their friend chatting with them over texts like one of their girlfriends.
You think the douchebags with the hb 9's at the club spend their time chatting girls up on msn hoping to get a date? that's for losers who want to get in the friend zone which is what you're getting yourself in to.
It's not that difficult
1. get their number
2. call them, chat them up a bit, ask them out
3. Use the 2 strikes rule
4. Repeat process
5. Stop complicating your life.
oh yeah delete your facebook/msn/myspace and make new ones and just keep those to your close friends (friends not women you are trying to dig out). You are not out to make friends with women you are out to be their possible lover so start acting like one.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I don't normally add girls on msn. The only times I do is when that's the only way I have to contact them. This girl had her cell cancelled when I met her so she added me on msn instead. And another girl I had on there had added me because her cell was broken when we met, but she have me her number as soon as she got it fixed (less than a week later).f283000 said:and then you say
WTF ARE YOU DOING TALKING TO B|TCHES ON MSN??????
Let me guess you asked for their msn right? don't lie brother i know it. Stop using facebook/msn/myspace with girls you're trying to dig out! You're out to be their lover not their friend chatting with them over texts like one of their girlfriends.
You think the douchebags with the hb 9's at the club spend their time chatting girls up on msn hoping to get a date? that's for losers who want to get in the friend zone which is what you're getting yourself in to.
It's not that difficult
1. get their number
2. call them, chat them up a bit, ask them out
3. Use the 2 strikes rule
4. Repeat process
5. Stop complicating your life.
oh yeah delete your facebook/msn/myspace and make new ones and just keep those to your close friends (friends not women you are trying to dig out). You are not out to make friends with women you are out to be their possible lover so start acting like one.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Spot-on. +1f283000 said:WTF ARE YOU DOING TALKING TO B|TCHES ON MSN??????
Let me guess you asked for their msn right? don't lie brother i know it. Stop using facebook/msn/myspace with girls you're trying to dig out! You're out to be their lover not their friend chatting with them over texts like one of their girlfriends.
You think the douchebags with the hb 9's at the club spend their time chatting girls up on msn hoping to get a date? that's for losers who want to get in the friend zone which is what you're getting yourself in to.
It's not that difficult
1. get their number
2. call them, chat them up a bit, ask them out
3. Use the 2 strikes rule
4. Repeat process
5. Stop complicating your life.
oh yeah delete your facebook/msn/myspace and make new ones and just keep those to your close friends (friends not women you are trying to dig out). You are not out to make friends with women you are out to be their possible lover so start acting like one.
To answer the OP's question, yes you can excite her sexually even if you haven't before.
There's a whole ton of stuff on this site about it, do some research. I mean that's basically why we're here.
Some super quick tips:
NC for a few months
Spin plates
Tell her you're not interested either
etc.
Most of it is just common sense. My best tip is only worry about improving yourself, don't focus on her and just give it time.