"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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can you tame the american women/is it worth it?

frivolousz21

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this is a question for the guys who are out there and trying to deal with this problem now?


personally I am going to stick towards the more religious conservative women..even though im a big liberal....

liberal through ideas not morals.

anyways for the guys out there dating the american *****?

is it worth it to put urself through that?

or do u prefere the good girl..even if it costs some looks and sexuality?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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themanwithnoname

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so you're saying you want to pretend someone you're not when you aren't really that person in the first place, damn sosuave is turning into a pile of mediocre goo.
 

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IMO ...

If you've got balls and a backbone then I doubt that hot b!tches and wh0res would have much of an impact on you ... especially if, in your view, their only reason for living is to provide you with sexual pleasure.

However, if you're looking for something deeper than sex, then you're probably going to have to settle for the girls with solid and appealing personalities, regardless of what they look like, because an ill-tempered or vacuous HB probably won't have what it takes to attract and satisfy a man on the emotional and intellectual levels.

Unless you run into an HB10 with a brain and a heart - in which case I'd suggest you check your pulse to see if you're still alive and not in Heaven - you're probably going to have to pick between looks and personality, because they're almost never in the same body.

Especially since relationship material girls probably won't be of the type who'd put up with you sleeping with hot bimbos on the side.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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