"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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can you tame the american women/is it worth it?

frivolousz21

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this is a question for the guys who are out there and trying to deal with this problem now?


personally I am going to stick towards the more religious conservative women..even though im a big liberal....

liberal through ideas not morals.

anyways for the guys out there dating the american *****?

is it worth it to put urself through that?

or do u prefere the good girl..even if it costs some looks and sexuality?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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themanwithnoname

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so you're saying you want to pretend someone you're not when you aren't really that person in the first place, damn sosuave is turning into a pile of mediocre goo.
 

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IMO ...

If you've got balls and a backbone then I doubt that hot b!tches and wh0res would have much of an impact on you ... especially if, in your view, their only reason for living is to provide you with sexual pleasure.

However, if you're looking for something deeper than sex, then you're probably going to have to settle for the girls with solid and appealing personalities, regardless of what they look like, because an ill-tempered or vacuous HB probably won't have what it takes to attract and satisfy a man on the emotional and intellectual levels.

Unless you run into an HB10 with a brain and a heart - in which case I'd suggest you check your pulse to see if you're still alive and not in Heaven - you're probably going to have to pick between looks and personality, because they're almost never in the same body.

Especially since relationship material girls probably won't be of the type who'd put up with you sleeping with hot bimbos on the side.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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