"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can you suggest books about social engineering, or psychological manipulation?

Who Dares Win

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Im interested in any solid book which gives fundamentals of social engineering and how to manipulate human interaction.

A book like the 48 laws of power has been very useful but now Im looking for something more specific, any suggestion?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This isn't a book about social engineering or how to manipulate human interaction, but a good read is Conditioned Reflex Therapy, by Andrew Salter.

If you're looking for a book on social engineering, you can get "Propaganda" by Edward Bernays for free, legally. It's in the public domain. If you want to learn more about Bernays, you can find an article on him in Wikipedia. I dislike his attitude that the so-called upper class know what's best for everyone but his methods, from what I've read, probably work.

Conditioned Reflex Therapy, even though it isn't written with the same outcomes in mind, will give you a decent understanding of the nature of our conditioned and unconditioned reflexes. It's a good read. Probably will give you a better understanding if you read it first and read Propaganda after reading it.
 

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Is there something particular that makes you want to read on these topics? Not sure if it's what you're looking for but might want to check out ordo ab chao(order out of chaos.)
 

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1984 and Brave New World ?
 

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Out of curiosity...why are you seeking these books?

who would you like to manipulate?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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"how to win friends and influence people " by dale carnegie
"never be lied to again" lieberman
"psycho-cybernetics" maxwell
"the prince" machiavelli

also read up on hypnosis and some spy stuff plus a little sociology and maybe history
after reading these books i can now manipulate most of the people around me ,i know, i'm a scumbag ....
good luck
 

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Aristippus said:
This isn't a book about social engineering or how to manipulate human interaction, but a good read is Conditioned Reflex Therapy, by Andrew Salter.

If you're looking for a book on social engineering, you can get "Propaganda" by Edward Bernays for free, legally. It's in the public domain. If you want to learn more about Bernays, you can find an article on him in Wikipedia. I dislike his attitude that the so-called upper class know what's best for everyone but his methods, from what I've read, probably work.

Conditioned Reflex Therapy, even though it isn't written with the same outcomes in mind, will give you a decent understanding of the nature of our conditioned and unconditioned reflexes. It's a good read. Probably will give you a better understanding if you read it first and read Propaganda after reading it.
FinalWay said:
Is there something particular that makes you want to read on these topics? Not sure if it's what you're looking for but might want to check out ordo ab chao(order out of chaos.)
foreverAFC said:
1984 and Brave New World ?
Im looking more for learning techniques than general culture something which I can apply for my gain, Im interested in the "how to" more than in the "how it works globally".



Burroughs said:
Out of curiosity...why are you seeking these books?

who would you like to manipulate?
Because Im a very ambitious and greedy individual and Im ready to use any possible tool to accomplish my goals, wheter morally or not...the more I live in this world the more I realize my biggest fear is being "one of the many" a drone in the herd.


switch said:
"how to win friends and influence people " by dale carnegie
"never be lied to again" lieberman
"psycho-cybernetics" maxwell
"the prince" machiavelli

also read up on hypnosis and some spy stuff plus a little sociology and maybe history
after reading these books i can now manipulate most of the people around me ,i know, i'm a scumbag ....
good luck
Read lieberman's never to be lied again last year, pretty good book, is that psycho-cybernetic as good as that?
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Read lieberman's never to be lied again last year, pretty good book, is that psycho-cybernetic as good as that?
Lieberman's is pretty good. Psycho-cybernetics is more for inner game.

Another of Leiberman's books is "How To Get Anybody To Do Anything," and is pretty much based on the covert - influence part of NLP (other parts of NLP are therapy and inner game)

Another good one is Kevin Hogan's "Covert Persuasion."
 
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Robert Greene's "Art of Seduction." I haven't read it yet, but I believe that it's supposed to be about swaying people to your way of thinking.

Worth a look; it'll be a good read, if nothing else.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lol how to manipulate people's minds. So you want to have better conversations with people basically.

@Tyte Eyes I have Art of Seduction. It's ok, nothing to write home about. it kind of encourages acting gay to get what you what, and I didn't like that. Law of Power 48 is way better

I would recommend a few books I personally liked

The Game by neil strauss - It was really cool to get inside the mind of a nerd loser, who made his way to charming everyone around him. The point of view style of the book helped me a lot!

The Millionaire Fastlane - Ok so this book is about money and making money, but it is my absolute favorite book ever! What it boils down to is, people want to know you based of what you offer them (excluding family sometimes) So this book talking about tuning your mind's frequency to that of an entrepreneur.

So basically offer value to people. He's got videos on youtube too that you can watch, before you read the book
 

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Catch Me If You Can, a non fiction book about a real life "pretender". you wont believe the stuff he got away with. even talked himself out of jail once, walked right thru a cop raid/ambush, got off of a plane that cops overseas put him on, deporting to US. amazing stuff.
 
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