"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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can you spot the bullsh!t on this girl?

tony-montana

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[11:15:05 PM] her: hey!!!
[11:16:02 PM] me: well hey there
[11:16:03 PM] me: sup
[11:17:05 PM] her: sorry i've been nowhere :)
[11:17:06 PM] her: how are you???
[11:17:45 PM] me: great!
[11:17:47 PM] me: just packing
[11:17:49 PM] me: :D
[11:17:54 PM] her: ooOoo!
[11:17:57 PM] her: where you heading soldier?
[11:18:05 PM] me: over west
[11:19:17 PM] me has changed his/her status to Idle
[11:19:31 PM] me has changed his/her status to Online
[11:20:57 PM] her: oo
[11:22:20 PM] her: oh yeah i think u mentioned it :)
[11:22:22 PM] her: ur gonna kill me...
[11:22:24 PM] her: but i have to run!
[11:22:25 PM] her: (K)
[11:22:33 PM] her: i really really do wanna talk some more
though haha
[11:22:37 PM] her: plz don't think i'm snobbing you :)
[11:22:39 PM] me: hehe its okay
[11:22:40 PM] her: have a safe trip
[11:22:45 PM] me: see ya :)
[11:23:37 PM] her is now Offline


wtf ?? is it just me or do i see some kinda ... method being pulled on me to get my attention. like shes making herself look bad so i give her more attention? i cant put my finger on it. i did use to msg her quite a bit but not lately. maybe that's it? just wanted to share that with you guys... just a sample of how crafty some girls are.

p.s: i dont like her shes just some idiot on my msn.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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K2000kidd

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I like how u kept giving her short answers
and how you seemed unreactive to her
when she said she had to go
sounds like she was testing you

if you had reacted to her leaving FAIL
 

EFFORT

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stop over analyzing
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonGorgon

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she wants attention cause the guy she wants to F is being unavailable to her... he is fing his other hos.. that makes her want him more so much so that she is willing to bs you while she waits for him to finnish so she can go f him.. you played it well but next time act like ur gone talk then ignore her..
 

shaunuk

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listen to EFFORT, he basically taught me that line. stop overanalysing.

There's no way to know for sure whether she's interested just by what she said and did there. There's a chance she is. Don't go into deep psychoanalysis over that short pseudo-conversation. Keep playing the game.
 

tony-montana

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DonGorgon said:
she wants attention cause the guy she wants to F is being unavailable to her... he is fing his other hos.. that makes her want him more so much so that she is willing to bs you while she waits for him to finnish so she can go f him.. you played it well but next time act like ur gone talk then ignore her..
i might be over analyzing but what this guy said is kinda true. she did tell me once she had a **** buddy. she was just using me as someone to tell her crap about. but not this time.
 

Kevin Feng

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Err…….. it’s hard to say if she’s snubbing you or not, I mean, it’s just an online conversation, maybe she just was genuinely busy, who knows.

I mean obviously you have a better grasp on it than I do, but it’s really tough to gauge online convos since you can’t convey any body language.


Anyways, it just sounds like she’s some random chick on MSN, who you shouldn’t be worrying about anyways, so just let it go, it’s NOT important.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Soprano

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just small talk dude lol you'll go crazy if you over analyze **** enough
 
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