"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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can you spot the bullsh!t on this girl?

tony-montana

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[11:15:05 PM] her: hey!!!
[11:16:02 PM] me: well hey there
[11:16:03 PM] me: sup
[11:17:05 PM] her: sorry i've been nowhere :)
[11:17:06 PM] her: how are you???
[11:17:45 PM] me: great!
[11:17:47 PM] me: just packing
[11:17:49 PM] me: :D
[11:17:54 PM] her: ooOoo!
[11:17:57 PM] her: where you heading soldier?
[11:18:05 PM] me: over west
[11:19:17 PM] me has changed his/her status to Idle
[11:19:31 PM] me has changed his/her status to Online
[11:20:57 PM] her: oo
[11:22:20 PM] her: oh yeah i think u mentioned it :)
[11:22:22 PM] her: ur gonna kill me...
[11:22:24 PM] her: but i have to run!
[11:22:25 PM] her: (K)
[11:22:33 PM] her: i really really do wanna talk some more
though haha
[11:22:37 PM] her: plz don't think i'm snobbing you :)
[11:22:39 PM] me: hehe its okay
[11:22:40 PM] her: have a safe trip
[11:22:45 PM] me: see ya :)
[11:23:37 PM] her is now Offline


wtf ?? is it just me or do i see some kinda ... method being pulled on me to get my attention. like shes making herself look bad so i give her more attention? i cant put my finger on it. i did use to msg her quite a bit but not lately. maybe that's it? just wanted to share that with you guys... just a sample of how crafty some girls are.

p.s: i dont like her shes just some idiot on my msn.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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K2000kidd

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I like how u kept giving her short answers
and how you seemed unreactive to her
when she said she had to go
sounds like she was testing you

if you had reacted to her leaving FAIL
 

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stop over analyzing
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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she wants attention cause the guy she wants to F is being unavailable to her... he is fing his other hos.. that makes her want him more so much so that she is willing to bs you while she waits for him to finnish so she can go f him.. you played it well but next time act like ur gone talk then ignore her..
 

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listen to EFFORT, he basically taught me that line. stop overanalysing.

There's no way to know for sure whether she's interested just by what she said and did there. There's a chance she is. Don't go into deep psychoanalysis over that short pseudo-conversation. Keep playing the game.
 

tony-montana

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DonGorgon said:
she wants attention cause the guy she wants to F is being unavailable to her... he is fing his other hos.. that makes her want him more so much so that she is willing to bs you while she waits for him to finnish so she can go f him.. you played it well but next time act like ur gone talk then ignore her..
i might be over analyzing but what this guy said is kinda true. she did tell me once she had a **** buddy. she was just using me as someone to tell her crap about. but not this time.
 

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Err…….. it’s hard to say if she’s snubbing you or not, I mean, it’s just an online conversation, maybe she just was genuinely busy, who knows.

I mean obviously you have a better grasp on it than I do, but it’s really tough to gauge online convos since you can’t convey any body language.


Anyways, it just sounds like she’s some random chick on MSN, who you shouldn’t be worrying about anyways, so just let it go, it’s NOT important.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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just small talk dude lol you'll go crazy if you over analyze **** enough
 
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