"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can you spot the alpha male jerk here?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WAHAHHAA...

The old guy is hilarious ^^

The other guys are mega insecure though!!

I think i'd be slammin that emergency break button like mad! :D
 

Jariel

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Wow, those guys were pathetic! With the exception of the older guy, they acted as though they'd never seen a woman before.

Am I the only one who finds attention wh0res like this extremely unnattractive? They were nice looking, but that kind of behaviour would turn me off quicker than Rosie O'Donnell in a see through thong! Getting stuck in an elevator with them would do my head in!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jariel said:
Wow, those guys were pathetic! With the exception of the older guy, they acted as though they'd never seen a woman before.

Am I the only one who finds attention wh0res like this extremely unnattractive? They were nice looking, but that kind of behaviour would turn me off quicker than Rosie O'Donnell in a see through thong! Getting stuck in an elevator with them would do my head in!
Those are attention wh0res?

Seriously?

I agree completely with you Jariel in your tips... but... from what I have learned about attention wh0res, what I have EXPERIENCED with attention wh0res, is that they won't share the attention. The only girls I think that are attention wh)res are the ones who get 'jealous' of not being in the spotlight.

Those girls don't strike me as AW's... just all around fun.
 
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