"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can you spot the alpha male jerk here?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Socialreject

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WAHAHHAA...

The old guy is hilarious ^^

The other guys are mega insecure though!!

I think i'd be slammin that emergency break button like mad! :D
 

Jariel

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Wow, those guys were pathetic! With the exception of the older guy, they acted as though they'd never seen a woman before.

Am I the only one who finds attention wh0res like this extremely unnattractive? They were nice looking, but that kind of behaviour would turn me off quicker than Rosie O'Donnell in a see through thong! Getting stuck in an elevator with them would do my head in!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jariel said:
Wow, those guys were pathetic! With the exception of the older guy, they acted as though they'd never seen a woman before.

Am I the only one who finds attention wh0res like this extremely unnattractive? They were nice looking, but that kind of behaviour would turn me off quicker than Rosie O'Donnell in a see through thong! Getting stuck in an elevator with them would do my head in!
Those are attention wh0res?

Seriously?

I agree completely with you Jariel in your tips... but... from what I have learned about attention wh0res, what I have EXPERIENCED with attention wh0res, is that they won't share the attention. The only girls I think that are attention wh)res are the ones who get 'jealous' of not being in the spotlight.

Those girls don't strike me as AW's... just all around fun.
 
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