"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Can you make a group of losers into becoming popular??

natedizzle

New Member
Joined
Apr 3, 2011
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
I don't like calling people that but it's true, and I find a sense of realness in them that I don't find in any of the popular kids but if I start hanging out with their group of people how do I make them cool overtime so I don't be claimed as a loser and not be able to get laid anymore?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
Not even worth a try really, they have to want to change themselves. Also changing a rep is hard.
Just cause you wanna be popular doesnt mean you cant hang with them, it rather means that you should be with everybody.
 

Jmac21

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 9, 2011
Messages
34
Reaction score
0
Have you considered that they could be happy with how they are now? Not to be shallow, but my best friend is good friends with a lot of "not so popular kids" and I still hang out with him even though I am known as one of the "jocks" or more popular kids. My advice to you is to just hang out with them, but become friends with everyone and you can always hang out with your "popular" friends. They only thing you have to be careful of is don't become fake, like at prom yesterday I was sitting with the more popular group and my best friend walked in with his friends and one of the kids I was with said something rude about my friend so I let him know "hey man ---- is pretty cool dude but dont talk sh*t cause thats my boy." Basically, don't start talking trash about one group behind their back to try and sounds cooler. That's my two cents.
 
Top