"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can you make a group of losers into becoming popular??

natedizzle

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I don't like calling people that but it's true, and I find a sense of realness in them that I don't find in any of the popular kids but if I start hanging out with their group of people how do I make them cool overtime so I don't be claimed as a loser and not be able to get laid anymore?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NorwegianDJ

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Not even worth a try really, they have to want to change themselves. Also changing a rep is hard.
Just cause you wanna be popular doesnt mean you cant hang with them, it rather means that you should be with everybody.
 

Jmac21

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Have you considered that they could be happy with how they are now? Not to be shallow, but my best friend is good friends with a lot of "not so popular kids" and I still hang out with him even though I am known as one of the "jocks" or more popular kids. My advice to you is to just hang out with them, but become friends with everyone and you can always hang out with your "popular" friends. They only thing you have to be careful of is don't become fake, like at prom yesterday I was sitting with the more popular group and my best friend walked in with his friends and one of the kids I was with said something rude about my friend so I let him know "hey man ---- is pretty cool dude but dont talk sh*t cause thats my boy." Basically, don't start talking trash about one group behind their back to try and sounds cooler. That's my two cents.
 
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