"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can you learn someting from "approach journal's?"

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From reading the Journal, it inspire me to start my own. Thats how valuable I think Journals are. I would rather see stuff from guys that are out in the field and seeing real results then the KJ that frequent the forum. Funny question though... I thought its pretty obvious you can learn heaps from Journals.
 
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I think it would depend on "which" approach journal you looked at. Perceptions are rarely accurate. Some people have a useful way of perceiving things, and others have, well, something else going on.
 
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You could also just APPROACH. It doesn't matter how many openers you've memorized or how many journals you've read.

THERE IS NO MAGIC FORMULA.

You have to approach, and you will crash and burn a few times, GET USED TO IT. ENJOY IT.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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