"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can you learn someting from "approach journal's?"

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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From reading the Journal, it inspire me to start my own. Thats how valuable I think Journals are. I would rather see stuff from guys that are out in the field and seeing real results then the KJ that frequent the forum. Funny question though... I thought its pretty obvious you can learn heaps from Journals.
 
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I think it would depend on "which" approach journal you looked at. Perceptions are rarely accurate. Some people have a useful way of perceiving things, and others have, well, something else going on.
 
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You could also just APPROACH. It doesn't matter how many openers you've memorized or how many journals you've read.

THERE IS NO MAGIC FORMULA.

You have to approach, and you will crash and burn a few times, GET USED TO IT. ENJOY IT.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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