"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can You Have More Then One Soul Mate?

penkitten

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rrrrr said:
If people get fvcked in life, it's because those people are an example for others somehow. Too bad for them, they got screwed in life for the rest of us.
some say its for their own soul growth, for compassion. others say everything has a purpose and others say god doesnt put you thru anything that you can not handle.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Raikojo17 said:
there is no soul mates imo. have met tons of girls in my AFC days that i blew it with a come to later realize that they would have been my perfect GF's. we had alot of stuff in common and just could talk about anything. did i think of any of them as my soul mates? yes, but after that one didnt work did i find another one just as good, if not better? yes.
there r tons of girls out there that are "right" for u. go out and find them and leave the married chicks alone.
Correct. I also think it is funny how many people claim to have found their 'soulmate' within 50 miles of their hometown. Who would have thought?:yes:
 

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This mystic, "spiritual" soulmate stuff is all sillyness.. .what a bunch of nonsense.

"my one and only soulmate just happened to be born next door to me!!" - ha ha ha!

And Penkitten, no offense but your approach is also silly. People were not "put here" to influence our lives. Other people are not our pawns.

And yes, the holocaust is the perfect example to prove that people were not "put on earth" to teach others good lessons. Some would say it even proves that God does not exist (not to turn this into a religious thread!!)

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dietzcoi said:
And Penkitten, no offense but your approach is also silly. People were not "put here" to influence our lives.
sure they were.

dietzcoi said:
And yes, the holocaust is the perfect example to prove that people were not "put on earth" to teach others good lessons. Some would say it even proves that God does not exist (not to turn this into a religious thread!!)

Dietzcoi
actually since the holocaust, alot of people have opened their minds and hearts and stopped caring so much about what race or ethnicy another person was, no one deserves to be held prisioner and tortured to death.
so yes, in the end, their suffering did cause a life lesson to others.
 
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