penkitten
Master Don Juan
some say its for their own soul growth, for compassion. others say everything has a purpose and others say god doesnt put you thru anything that you can not handle.rrrrr said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Can You Have More Then One Soul Mate?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This mystic, "spiritual" soulmate stuff is all sillyness.. .what a bunch of nonsense.
"my one and only soulmate just happened to be born next door to me!!" - ha ha ha!
And Penkitten, no offense but your approach is also silly. People were not "put here" to influence our lives. Other people are not our pawns.
And yes, the holocaust is the perfect example to prove that people were not "put on earth" to teach others good lessons. Some would say it even proves that God does not exist (not to turn this into a religious thread!!)
Dietzcoi
"my one and only soulmate just happened to be born next door to me!!" - ha ha ha!
And Penkitten, no offense but your approach is also silly. People were not "put here" to influence our lives. Other people are not our pawns.
And yes, the holocaust is the perfect example to prove that people were not "put on earth" to teach others good lessons. Some would say it even proves that God does not exist (not to turn this into a religious thread!!)
Dietzcoi
penkitten
Master Don Juan
sure they were.dietzcoi said:
actually since the holocaust, alot of people have opened their minds and hearts and stopped caring so much about what race or ethnicy another person was, no one deserves to be held prisioner and tortured to death.dietzcoi said:
so yes, in the end, their suffering did cause a life lesson to others.