"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can you guys take a look at this text convo

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Here's the facts:

-She's 19, lives 1 hour away
-First screenshot is from Hinge, 2nd is all of our texts messages, the last one I sent was last Friday.
-I suspect my last comment was what turned her off, I fcking hate dirty talk and sometimes I go overboard with it. Also, as a rule I normally avoid any sex/dirty talk before we fvck since it can kill the tension, but I was experimenting to see how it would to play along.
-Please note I don't actually care at all - I have zero interest in sex/dating right now the last few months, but I still test the waters with girls just for practice and experimenting.

My suspicion is that she is just a wild slut who does this with every guy to move fast then just sticks with whichever one is the most promising, in which case, no harm no foul. I just found it odd how she went from 100 to 0 like that.



Can we post NSFW btw?
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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That sounds like a fake account trolling you ... are Hinge convos with real girls that explicit and coming with X rated photos? I mean, messaging with an escort is more PG than that. :rolleyes:
 

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That sounds like a fake account trolling you ... are Hinge convos with real girls that explicit and coming with X rated photos? I mean, messaging with an escort is more PG than that. :rolleyes:
All the pics and dirty talk are from our text messages in the second screenshot, not Hinge.

Why would someone do all that to "troll" then ghost? She literally wrote me several essays, sent all these pics, I barely sent her anything from A to Z...so joke is on her if it's a troll since she just wasted "her" time.
 

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For all we know, it could be a fat bearded man sending the same texts and pics to several guys just to satisfy his perverted sense of humor.
That to me doesn't sound like a normal girl talking to a guy who she's never seen before. :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Jealous yet?"

Did she really send you a video of her doing another guy?
Blowing him, yeah, I didn't really watch any of the vids beyond 2 seconds though. I thought it was crazy.

For all we know, it could be a fat bearded man sending the same texts and pics to several guys just to satisfy his perverted sense of humor.
That to me doesn't sound like a normal girl talking to a guy who she's never seen before. :rolleyes:
Could be, but I've rarely come across trolls/catfishes in all my years of OLD, but when I do they're super obvious since they don't have the social skills to be convincing. I figured she was just a crazy slut.
 

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Could be, but I've never run across trolls/catfishes in all my years of OLD, they're usually super obvious. I figured she was just a crazy slut.
Aren't the texts and the pics super obvious? It's either a fat bearded man/old hag (that's my bet) or a young girl on drugs.
 

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Aren't the texts and the pics super obvious? It's either a fat bearded man/old hag (that's my bet) or a young girl on drugs.
I guess, that's a sad existence if that's the case
 

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I can’t imagine a woman being that forward unless: she had a strong emotional connection to you, you have previously met in person at least once, you have told each other your whole life story, and you have been vetted.

If none of that happened then this is maybe a guy who likes guys and he does this for fun.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I’ve had a few gals come on like a ton of bricks in the past off online dating. I have posted screenshots here in the past of a few. I fraked them both within minutes of meeting them in person. Of the ones it’s happened with they’ve been 20 years my junior and one that was 5 years younger than me but European.

It does happen. Hasn’t happened in a long time for me though - but I’m no longer using the same OLD approach given I’m looking for more stability than I am flags.
 

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Something seems off with that...she came on way too strong. Everytime I've had something similar the chick ends up being a tease/game player/ghoster.

For all the stuff she sent you did fairly well not taking the bait hard like most guys would have done.

Don't think there was anything wrong on your end. Would have had a similar Convo if she came at me like that.

I'd hit her up in a week or so if you don't hear back and just tease her with something like "Playing hard to get already? How cute" with a smirk.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You just nutted all over your stomach to a dude, bro.
 

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You just nutted all over your stomach to a dude, bro.
I barely glanced at half the stuff she sent, didn't even get a semi...

She’s alpha widowed, trying to get over that ex. Spend some money, show her a good time, hit it quit it
This is the only explaination that makes sense

I’ve had a few gals come on like a ton of bricks in the past off online dating. I have posted screenshots here in the past of a few. I fraked them both within minutes of meeting them in person. Of the ones it’s happened with they’ve been 20 years my junior and one that was 5 years younger than me but European.

It does happen. Hasn’t happened in a long time for me though - but I’m no longer using the same OLD approach given I’m looking for more stability than I am flags.
I have too; though none of them sent x rated pics right off the bat. I've certainly had my share of eager sluts though. Last year had a 19 year old I never met drive over an hour from her dorm room to my apartment to fvck... my gut isn't telling me this is a troll, but just a deranged slut. Either way, I don't give a shvt if anything happens or not, and if she's real she's probably crazy.



Also, I want to emphasize i've been using OLD on and off in some form for a decade and I've can honestly say I don't even recall ever coming across trolls/catfishes, worst thing I've dealt with is prostitutes.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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