Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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can you go through your day with out cussing?

avrilishot

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I have been thinking about this for awhile. See to me its impossible. Im not sure why. I mean my parents dont cuss and I really dont hang out with many of my buddies. well when im around chicks I try not to cuss. But sometimes it does slip out. To me cussing relives stress. Maybe but im not sure on that one. Some days I try to go through the day without cussing but its impossible.

So I have a few questions. Is it possible to go through the day without cussing for you? and should you not cuss infront of chicks?

Please help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hahah, :up:, definitely a dude question!! Men are aggressive beasts and vent verbally to express their mental and physical distress!! It is natural but not encouraged!
 

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I go through phases. Some days, I cuss up a storm. Other days, I don't say one bad word.

For me, it does all seem to correlate with my stress level. During the summer, when my stress was real low, I hardly cussed. Now that semester has started back up, I've been cussing up a storm.
 

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avrilishot said:
I have been thinking about this for awhile. See to me its impossible. Im not sure why. I mean my parents dont cuss and I really dont hang out with many of my buddies. well when im around chicks I try not to cuss. But sometimes it does slip out. To me cussing relives stress. Maybe but im not sure on that one. Some days I try to go through the day without cussing but its impossible.

So I have a few questions. Is it possible to go through the day without cussing for you? and should you not cuss infront of chicks?

Please help.
Hells yeah! Of course it's possible to go through a fvcking day without cussing, motherfvcker!!!
 

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its impossible for me. Over my years in high school i tried to cut back and stop in respect for girls I was dating or not to cuss around them and it was tough but doable. Now that I'm in college though fvck it I'm worse then ever especially living with the roommates I got thats all we do is cuss at each other in a brotherly friendly way
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Very hard for me. I can't even cut it down to zero with the 'rents.
The only thing that can get me to stop cussing, is if I'm with a girl that I'm not entirely sure how she'd take it/she's judging me. I'll be very careful in my words then..
 

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It can be hot when a girl swears.

I used to swear so much that I had to concentrate to not swear in front of the 'rents. This led to me having strong compulsions to just say 'fvck' out loud, but I couldnt coz I would get in trouble.
 
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[S]alvatore said:
I knew someone would say that lame joke... way overused. To me cussing shows immaturity, I rarely swear in public since I believe it degrades my standards. It's not attractive for girls to swear out load in public... shows no self-control. If it's in the bedroom... it's fine by me. :rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
It's not attractive for girls to swear out load in public... shows no self-control. If it's in the bedroom... it's fine by me. :rolleyes:
I totally agree with you on that! I will not date a girl who constantly swears... It's a turn-off to me... In the sack, sure!! But other than that, shows she doesn't have self control, yeah...
 

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yes, having a dirty mouth is not and will never be a turn on. Unless you are in bed with a chick and she plain out says "fvck me like a wh0re you fvckin b1tch" then it will be an exception IMO :drool:
 

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ChapStick said:
I totally agree with you on that! I will not date a girl who constantly swears... It's a turn-off to me... In the sack, sure!! But other than that, shows she doesn't have self control, yeah...
+1

It takes hardly any effort to cuss, I'd rather hear a well constructed sentence and leave the cursing to times when it's absolutely necessary. Besides, if you curse all of the time, how do people take you seriously when you really have the need to curse?
 

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its impossible for me. and I have tried.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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