"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
can you get a girl to leave he bf?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I actually had to learn this lesson the hard way. For some girls, it is entirely possible to get them to cheat on/leave their boyfriends for you. All you have to do is make yourself look like the better choice.
Things to keep in mind:
1.) Don't date them. Or get attached to them. You will be setting yourself up for failure. If she cheated on her boyfriend to be with you, what makes you think she won't cheat on you with somebody else? Are you really just that much of a smooth operator? Remember what Ludacris said; "You can't turn a ho in to a house wife."
2.) It is a ****ty thing to do. If you wind up getting punched in your mouth, you had that **** coming. Especially if you operate through deceit and the power of shiest. If I found out that somebody was lying about me to my lady friend in order to get in her pants, or that the same somebody actually got away with it and banged her, I would tell the woman to kick rocks, and shove my foot up that douche-bags ass.
P.S. Dudes get serious over their *****. I've beaten ass before over tang, and I've seen people do some seriously evil **** over the vagina. Just remember that the vag is a beautiful thing, but with it comes the necessity of self-control and maturity. Tang has corrupted better men than you and I.
Possible Problems:
She might actually like her bf better and you're screwed, let that go.
She might cheat on you after that.
She might actually do something with you and then you get emotionally attached and she stays with her bf.
Unless she's coming onto you hardcore, i wouldn't think its worth the time and investment.
Right now I have this friend at college and we do a of things together, I like her, she's smart sexy and funny but she's had a bf for 4 years. I'm really not doing anything, i flirt with her and i'm ****y/funny with her ALL the time and i know she loves it but I'm not gonna try anything because i've been burned before
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