"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
can you get a girl to leave he bf?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I actually had to learn this lesson the hard way. For some girls, it is entirely possible to get them to cheat on/leave their boyfriends for you. All you have to do is make yourself look like the better choice.
Things to keep in mind:
1.) Don't date them. Or get attached to them. You will be setting yourself up for failure. If she cheated on her boyfriend to be with you, what makes you think she won't cheat on you with somebody else? Are you really just that much of a smooth operator? Remember what Ludacris said; "You can't turn a ho in to a house wife."
2.) It is a ****ty thing to do. If you wind up getting punched in your mouth, you had that **** coming. Especially if you operate through deceit and the power of shiest. If I found out that somebody was lying about me to my lady friend in order to get in her pants, or that the same somebody actually got away with it and banged her, I would tell the woman to kick rocks, and shove my foot up that douche-bags ass.
P.S. Dudes get serious over their *****. I've beaten ass before over tang, and I've seen people do some seriously evil **** over the vagina. Just remember that the vag is a beautiful thing, but with it comes the necessity of self-control and maturity. Tang has corrupted better men than you and I.
Possible Problems:
She might actually like her bf better and you're screwed, let that go.
She might cheat on you after that.
She might actually do something with you and then you get emotionally attached and she stays with her bf.
Unless she's coming onto you hardcore, i wouldn't think its worth the time and investment.
Right now I have this friend at college and we do a of things together, I like her, she's smart sexy and funny but she's had a bf for 4 years. I'm really not doing anything, i flirt with her and i'm ****y/funny with her ALL the time and i know she loves it but I'm not gonna try anything because i've been burned before
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