OnTheWayUp
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Gents,
We on this board are most often concerned with helping our fellow men find success with women. Very often, this involves an AFC who is obsessed with "this one girl," who is in a toxic relationship, or who is pursuing a girl who does not reciprocate his interest. Spin more plates, experience lots of different women and don't limit your options unnecessarily is the advice you read over and over again. For this reason, the question I am asking in this thread might seem a strange one.
I am thinking about this particular issue as a result of reading this article this morning, which some of the other British readers may well have seen as well: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16469222.
The article describes the experiences of a British comedian in his early 30s who, on his own admission, has slept with over 300 women. Watch some of his videos on youtube and you'll quickly see why: his body language and general way of speaking are superb. I have read several times on here and elsewhere that you can laugh your way into a chick's panties- this man is living proof.
There is a lot of shaming language in the article if you read it carefully. The comedian "wants to confront his problem," and describes how his ex-girlfriends (note the female victim mentality) called him "selfish," "self-centred" etc. Anyone who reads Rollo's blog will understand that a certain amount of this is due to the comedian's complete disregard for the female biological imperative up till now. Whilst the comedian's contemporaries are thinking about settling down, he himself is going from woman to woman with consummate ease.
But is there more to it than that? Is it possible to reach a point where the negative side of banging more women outweighs the positives? My virginity was taken last year by a girl who, in the indirect way that only a woman can speak, confessed she was a slut. On her own admission, she needs sex every 2 weeks to survive. Having had more experience with women since, I have noticed that the ability of my first girl to bond emotionally after getting physical was almost non-existant compared to some of the other girls I have dated. Does the same thing apply to men who reach a certain amount of sexual partners?
Experiencing multiple women has many benefits of which the blue pill man is completely ignorant. You learn how to attract different types of girl, you learn what you are looking for in a long-term partner, you learn to see red flags quickly, etc etc. But is there a notch count where the negatives outweigh the positives?
Discuss.
We on this board are most often concerned with helping our fellow men find success with women. Very often, this involves an AFC who is obsessed with "this one girl," who is in a toxic relationship, or who is pursuing a girl who does not reciprocate his interest. Spin more plates, experience lots of different women and don't limit your options unnecessarily is the advice you read over and over again. For this reason, the question I am asking in this thread might seem a strange one.
I am thinking about this particular issue as a result of reading this article this morning, which some of the other British readers may well have seen as well: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16469222.
The article describes the experiences of a British comedian in his early 30s who, on his own admission, has slept with over 300 women. Watch some of his videos on youtube and you'll quickly see why: his body language and general way of speaking are superb. I have read several times on here and elsewhere that you can laugh your way into a chick's panties- this man is living proof.
There is a lot of shaming language in the article if you read it carefully. The comedian "wants to confront his problem," and describes how his ex-girlfriends (note the female victim mentality) called him "selfish," "self-centred" etc. Anyone who reads Rollo's blog will understand that a certain amount of this is due to the comedian's complete disregard for the female biological imperative up till now. Whilst the comedian's contemporaries are thinking about settling down, he himself is going from woman to woman with consummate ease.
But is there more to it than that? Is it possible to reach a point where the negative side of banging more women outweighs the positives? My virginity was taken last year by a girl who, in the indirect way that only a woman can speak, confessed she was a slut. On her own admission, she needs sex every 2 weeks to survive. Having had more experience with women since, I have noticed that the ability of my first girl to bond emotionally after getting physical was almost non-existant compared to some of the other girls I have dated. Does the same thing apply to men who reach a certain amount of sexual partners?
Experiencing multiple women has many benefits of which the blue pill man is completely ignorant. You learn how to attract different types of girl, you learn what you are looking for in a long-term partner, you learn to see red flags quickly, etc etc. But is there a notch count where the negatives outweigh the positives?
Discuss.
