"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can you ever go back?

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OK, I was out Christmas shopping today and of all places I visited a flashy baby clothes store to get a present for a friend's baby daughter.

There were two cute girls in their early twenties working in the store and I was the only customer. As soon as I walked in one of the girls came over to help me.

I happened to mention the baby I was buying for had been born the same time I was overseas. The girl started asking me all about my trip and said she wanted to visit those places.

As soon as I paid and left I realised I had lost my shopping list so I popped back quickly and the girl came to help me look for it but no joy.

I left again and then clicked that I had been getting some interest from her but I was too caught up in my shopping to realise at the time (D'OH!)

Now if I went back and asked her for her number or asked her out for coffee I think my odds are good. After all, most of the guys she will meet through work are buying for their own kids.

Do you think this is worth going back for or should I just file it under missed opportunity and move on?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd say give it a shot, there is no harm in doing it. And at least it sends a message to your brain that you deserve the girls you really find attractive, and that you're not afraid to do something about it.
 

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Ha - no chocolate bars in the baby store. I would like to go back. I think it's worth a shot although it might not be until after Christmas now.

If only I had been switched on an in approach mode as I usually am all weekend. :rolleyes:
 
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